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7. So When Do I… Find My Community? With Shelley Zallis
33:56||Season 2, Ep. 7What if the key to feeling more confident, connected, and fulfilled isn't doing more, but finding your people?This week, we sit down with entrepreneur and Female Quotient founder Shelley Zallis to talk about the extraordinary power of women gathering together. From building community in business to creating spaces where people feel seen, heard, and supported, Shelley shares why meaningful connections don't just happen; they're intentionally created. Whether you're looking to expand your circle, strengthen your relationships, or simply remember that you don't have to go to business conferences alone, this episode is a reminder that we're always stronger together--especially as women.You can find more information about the Female Quotient at the following links:https://www.instagram.com/femalequotient/?hl=enhttps://www.youtube.com/@FemaleQuotienthttps://www.linkedin.com/company/femalequotient/https://www.thefemalequotient.com/Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger
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6. So When Do I… Speak Up, And When Do I Walk Away? With Monica Corcoran
46:09||Season 2, Ep. 6In this episode, we sit down with journalist and author Monica Corcoran to discuss the conversation sparked by her viral article about women who are quietly leaving their marriages without actually getting divorced. What begins as a conversation about marriage quickly expands into a thoughtful look at emotional labor, evolving relationships, friendship, identity, and why so many women are redefining what fulfillment looks like in midlife.We also explore how our expectations of marriage have changed, the importance of staying curious instead of critical, and why honest conversations may be the key to growing together through every season of life. We hope this episode encourages you to ask better questions, embrace change, and create relationships that evolve with you—not against you.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger
5. So When Do I… Go Back To Therapy?
23:24||Season 2, Ep. 5We've all had that moment: something's weighing on you, you can't quite unpack it alone, and your friends have heard enough. So... is it time to call a therapist?This week, we're getting into something a lot of us have quietly wondered about—whether therapy still has a place later in life. Not because something is broken, but because life keeps changing, and sometimes we need more than a good friend to help us sort through it. It's truly never too late to talk it out. Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger
4. So When Do I… Open My Heart Again and Redefine Love? With Paulina Porizkova
44:58||Season 2, Ep. 4This week, we're joined by supermodel, author, and actress Paulina Porizkova and her fiancé, Emmy-nominated television writer and producer Jeff Greenstein, for a heartfelt conversation about finding love later in life. Paulina opens up about the grief, uncertainty, and reinvention that followed some of the most difficult chapters of her life, while Jeff shares his own journey back to love. We'll talk about dating apps, vulnerability, aging, second chances, and why the butterflies we chase aren't always what we need. Most of all, we'll explore what happens when two people meet at a stage in life where they know who they are, what they want, and aren't afraid to choose each other.Whether you're looking for love, healing from loss, or simply wondering what's still possible in your next chapter, we hope this conversation leaves you feeling inspired, encouraged, and open to the unexpected.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger
3. So When Do I... Make My Home Reflect Who I Am Now? With Nate Berkus
55:06||Season 2, Ep. 3This week, we sit down with iconic interior designer and author, Nate Berkus, for an honest conversation about what makes a home meaningful, why good design is so much more than trends, and how our spaces evolve as we do. From letting go of the things we no longer need to creating rooms that reflect who we truly are, Nate shares thoughtful insights on nostalgia, style, family, and the beauty of living well.Nate's latest book, Foundations: Timeless Design That Feels Personal, is available for purchase on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/Foundations-Timeless-Design-Feels-Personal/dp/1668026139/ref=sr_1_1?crid=23MWO6M6P171H&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.sH-0_5AQFOFThoR06VjhC9UlZztrdZB9ud62JJDSJD_GjHj071QN20LucGBJIEps.vxHpVqfJyyV9mfLQWLV0RlOKTaKmvmfgw6czeEGUa9w&dib_tag=se&keywords=foundation+nate+berkus&qid=1779727418&sprefix=foundation+nate+berku%2Caps%2C277&sr=8-1&tag=getinthegroov-1-bg-20Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger
2. So When Do I… Put My Phone Down and Be Present?
24:27||Season 2, Ep. 2This week, we’re talking about something we all swear everyone else is worse at… but secretly know we’re guilty of too: our relationship with our phones. From scrolling at dinner to checking texts mid-conversation, we unpack how technology is quietly shaping our relationships, attention, sleep, loneliness, and even intimacy.We talk about why being present might be the ultimate luxury, the small “baby steps” we can take to reconnect with the people right in front of us, and the simple habits that can help us feel more intentional in our relationships again. If you’ve ever felt distracted, dismissed, or wondered when we all forgot how to just be with each other, this one’s for you.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger
1. So When Do I… Stop Asking for Permission and Trust Myself? With The Devil Wears Prada 2 Producer, Wendy Finerman
41:23||Season 2, Ep. 1We are so excited to be kicking off Season 2! In this episode, we sit down with legendary producer Wendy Finerman--the producer behind iconic films like Forrest Gump and The Devil Wears Prada--for a conversation about trusting your instincts, staying true to your perspective, and learning how to take up space in rooms not always built for women.Wendy shares stories from building her career in Hollywood, championing projects no one believed in at first, and navigating success in a male-dominated industry without losing her authenticity. In this episode, we talk about intuition, resilience, confidence, creative longevity, and what happens when you stop waiting for permission to trust yourself.Don’t forget to follow for more:> Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/getinthegroove1/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/sowhendoi/> TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@getinthegroove1> YouTube: www.youtube.com/@InTheGroove1Hosts and Executive Producers - Susan Feldman and Phyllis BergerCo-Producer, Engineer, & Editor - Spencer GanusCo-Producer & Editor - Caroline McClellandSocial Media Manager - Skylar HarrisonMusic - Ben Berger