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We Have Lost The Art Of Flirting Ft Chinasa Anukam

Season 7, Ep. 14

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We’re joined by Chinasa Anukam — host of Is This Seat Taken?, Director, Stand-up comic, Writer, Actor, Certified jack of many trades, and Master of maintaining beauty — for a lively and humorous conversation. Although we couldn’t be joined by Isaac this week due to unforeseen circumstances, the vibes were still very much intact.


We dive into the hot take that Nigerians — especially Nigerian men — may have completely lost the art of flirting, what flirting used to look like, and how it somehow turned into dry compliments and awkward DMs. Chinasa shares her thoughts, personal experiences, and very honest observations on modern-day flirting.


The conversation also takes a playful turn as she talks about how much she loves Abuja, why the city has her heart, and how agberos somehow deliver the most creative, unfiltered compliments you’ll ever hear. From city love to street wisdom, nothing was off-limits.


Overall, it’s a light and witty conversation! 

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