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632. Being Fine with Friends, with Jolenta Greenberg and Kristen Meinzer
Jolenta Greenberg and Kristen Meinzer are podcasting powerhouses with shows like By the Book and How to be Fine With Friends.
This season they’re looking at friendship, the research behind sustaining friendships, ending relationships, and creating new connections with people – and they joined me to talk all about it.
You can find their show, How to be Fine with Friends where you get your podcasts – like this one!
TW/CW: short discussion of diet culture and diet books just after Kristen introduces herself. When she stops talking, hit your 30 second skip and you should be fine.
What are some of the traits you appreciate most about your closest friends?
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You can find How to Be Fine with Friends where you get your podcasts, and you can follow the show on Instagram @howtobefinepod.
Jolenta Greenberg can be found on her website JolentaGreenberg.com, and on Instagram @jolenta_g.
Kristen Meinzer can be found on her website, KristenMeinzer.com, on Instagram @K10meinzer, and co-hosting her show The Daily Fail.
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