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Finding Safety Before Setting Goals (Revisited)

Season 1, Ep. 17

Since there’s been so many new listeners lately, I wanted to revisit one of the core conversations from earlier on in She’s Becoming 🤍

This episode explores the importance of finding emotional safety within yourself before constantly chasing goals, productivity, relationships or external validation.

We talk about nervous system regulation, self-worth, emotional wellbeing, and why creating a safe foundation within yourself can completely change the way you move through life.

If you’re new here, this is definitely one of the episodes I’d recommend starting with ✨

Enjoy!

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