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Alison Doreen Perfect: Femicide, Coercive Control and a Murder Witnessed by Her Children - Part 1
She wanted to control her own life - for this, he murdered her - in front of the children. Her name is Alison Doreen Perfect. She was only 39.
When they took him to jail, Alison's children were placed in the foster care system. Her daughter Donna-Leigh Perfect endured deeply traumatic violence while in care - and when the killer was released from jail, she was given an impossible choice.
Today, Donna-Leigh walks us through her Alison's far-too short life, the impact of her father's decision to kill and how the trauma of her destroyed childhood inspires her to make life better for other children.
This episode has a graphic description of murder. It also discusses domestic violence, rape and sexual violence, coercive control and femicide. It is not safe for children.
This season of She Matters is supported by Verve Super, committed to women’s financial security and standing against violence in all its forms. She Matters is also supported by Your One and Only.
Presenter: Sherele Moody
Producer: Dash Made Studios
To help keep this podcast on air and support this vital work, please donate or buy a RED HEART t-shirt - 100% of proceeds fund efforts to save lives and end violence.
❤️ Donate: australianfemicidewatch.org/support
❤️ Shop: australianfemicidewatch.org/shop-2
❤️ SUPPORT MY WORK
The RED HEART Campaign and Australian Femicide Watch are unfunded initiatives providing:
• Support for families of femicide
• Housing for women leaving violence
• Ethical media training for journalists
• Rallies, vigils, and public awareness events
• Documentation of women and children lost to violence
If you need help:
❤️ 1800 RESPECT – 1800 737 732
❤️ Women’s Crisis Line – 1800 811 811
❤️ 13YARN – 13 92 76
❤️ Rainbow Helpline – 1800 497 212
❤️ Men’s Referral Service – 1300 766 491
❤️ MensLine – 1300 789 978
❤️ Lifeline (24 hours) – 13 11 14
Connect:
📱 Instagram/Facebook: sherelemoodyfemicidewatch
🐦 X (Twitter): @ShereleMoody
📘 Facebook: TheREDHEARTCampaign/
🎵 TikTok: @femicidewatchaustralia
🌐 Website: australianfemicidewatch.org
📧 Email: Sherele@AustralianFemicideWatch.org
Women in Australia retire with an average 23% less retirement savings than men. That’s a real super gender gap. Our financial lives can be quite complex, however many of us don’t know who to turn to for support in a financial services industry that wasn’t built with us in mind. That’s why we created Verve a community for women, men & non-binary folk who believe in our mission of closing the super gap.
🔗 Financial Abuse – What to Look Out For
🔗 Verve Super Financial Coaching
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42. Sherry Joy Bulman: Murder, Coercive Control and Generational Trauma - Part 2
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41. Sherry Joy Bulman: Pregnant, Trapped by Domestic Violence and Murdered - Part 1
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40. Alison Doreen Perfect: Domestic Violence, Femicide and Children Left Behind - Part 2
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