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What are some of the obstacles folks with disabilities might have when it come to sex? What are some tips for folks with disabilities to have more pleasure in their lives? Kelly shares this as well as her favorite sex toys for folks with disabilities.  About our guest: Kelly Perks-Bevington is a 32 year old entrepreneur and consultant based in the West Midlands, UK! She has Spinal Muscular Atrophy Type 3 which is a genetic disability meaning for her, that she uses an electric wheelchair to get around. Kellys condition is progressive and has meant that she has faced loosing her ability throughout her life especially when her body faced big changes and challenges such as pregnancy. Kelly has two young sons, which is quite trying for any parent but absolutely loves parenting with her disability with help from her supportive partner Josh and her awesome team of PA’s! From a young age Kelly was outspoken and never let anyone dictate what her disability meant or allowed her to do this has seen her go through mainstream schools, get into a lot of trouble at college and ultimately push herself through many exciting and predominately male dominated industries. Kelly now works as a consultant which allows her to dedicate her time to projects that truly excite her and allows her also to manage her time to ensure she has sufficient time with her young sons. Kellys current projects span from recruitment to working for forward thinking sex toy brand Hot Octopuss. Kelly also works as a presenter and is the current host of Hot Octopuss’s brand podcast Pleasure Rebels, as well as this Kelly has also worked on projects for the BBC, Channel 4 and Virgin Media. Kelly also regularly appears in mainstream media throughout the UK discussing issues that disabled people face and advocating for other disabled people. Kelly has also co-founded the business "With Not For” with Emma Gardner. Kelly and Emma are working together on this project to not only get disabled people into work but to push disabled people into high paid and high power roles, ultimately getting them to boardroom level by embracing talent, confidence and reeducating big employers about the benefits of adding people with disabilities to their teams! To learn more visit hotoctopuss.com/pleasure-rebels

What gets in the way of people having great sex with themselves or others? What is the most powerful thing people can do to amp up the pleasure? Return guest and dear friend, Pyasa, answers all this and more (along with plenty of applicable tips for how to how more sexual pleasure in your life).  We also answer a sex question about dirty talk. And we share our fav sex toy of the week: The Kurve  About our guest: Pyasa is a trauma-informed somatic sexologist, Interdisciplinary Pelvic specialist, and sexological bodyworker. She mentors women and couples online, facilitates individual and group transformational retreats, and has been raising consciousness about the importance of sexual sovereignty as a public speaker on stages around the world. She is also the author of the Intimacy Adventure Playbook. Pyasa believes pleasure is our birthright as human beings and a powerful healing force. She is passionate about helping people unleash from the disempowered conditioning imposed by sex negative cultures which have distorted it’s original expression. She uses embodied learning, presence practices, pelvic/heart, and de-armoring techniques to support her students to take agency of their lives so they can bring their full-bodied presence into the world, enjoying life and all its pleasures. To learn more visit iampyasaunleashed.com  https://www.instagram.com/iampyasa_unleashed https://iampyasaunleashed.com/costa-rica-womens-retreat/ Mention Shameless Sex Podcast & get $200 off tuition for the Sexual Healing Initiation & Celebration Retreat Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Why is masturbation important? How can it change your life for the better? And what are some of the ways people can bring more self-pleasure into their lives? August shares her own personal journey as well as plenty of tips and applicable life hacks for ways you can have great sex with yourself.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 17.  About our guest: August McLaughlin is a nationally recognized health and sexuality writer, media personality and host and producer of the podcast, Girl Boner Radio, which offers a spicy blend of personal stories, in-depth reporting and inspiration. Reviewers have called the show “Sex in the City meets NPR” and the “Fresh Air of Sex” and the show frequents Apple Podcasts’ top 100 sexuality chart. August’s work as an advocate for sexual empowerment and gender parity led her to the TEDx stage and to attend the 2016 United State of Women summit as a nominated change maker. Her articles have appeared in a range of notable publications, including Cosmopolitan, The Washington Post and DAME Magazine. August is also a trauma-informed certified sex educator with a passion for myth-busting and normalizing stigmatized topics. Publishers Weekly called her book, Girl Boner: The Good Girl’s Guide to Sexual Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2018) “equally fun, risqué, and informative” and “a welcome addition to sexual health literature.” The New York Times called it “terrifically encouraging” and “a thorough primer on everything from sex toys to bondage to ‘no means no.” Her workbook, Girl Boner Journal: A Guided Journal to Sexual Joy and Empowerment (Amberjack Publishing, 2019), is full of true stories and writing prompts for deepening sexual self-discovery.  August’s forthcoming book, With Pleasure: Managing Trauma Triggers for More Vibrant Sex and Relationships, cowritten by sex therapist, Jamila Dawson, LMFT, will be released by Chicago Review Press in the fall of 2021. Known for melding personal passion, artistry and activism, August uses her skills to lift others’ voices, debunk damaging myths, and encourage folks to embrace their bodies, sexuality and selves, making way for richer, more authentic lives. To learn more visit girlboner.org Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: https://feeld.app.link/shameless50 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Learn how to give pleasure to your partner WHILE bringing yourself to orgasm with you on top! This episode is packed full of tips, tricks, position techniques, and a lot of laughter.  About our guest: Samia created Sexual Essentials to take an unconventional approach to sexual education, by offering hands on sex workshops such as the infamous #MouthMasterclass #DickRiding101 & the Sex Conditioning Workout. These workshops are centered around building confidence in a bold yet respectable way where anyone can feel comfortable because they are a tribe & a 100% judgement free zone. To learn more visit thesexualessentials.com. Use code MasturbationMay now through 5/31/21 for a discount Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get turned on with 30 days free of super hot audio erotica at dipseastories.com/shameless Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast Come to Amy's Tantra In Motion Workshop at Daniel Mollner's Summer Solstice Campout: danielmollner.com

What is crossdressing and why does it feel so good (and arousing) for penis owners who embrace the feminine part of themselves? How does crossdressing show up in sexuality? And how is this related (or not related) to sexual orientation or gender identity?  We also answer a sex question: Menopause is ruining my marriage.  About our guests: Sissy Becca has been an alpha male all of his life, but discovered his feminine side 15 years ago. Over the past 15 years he has alternating with struggling with his desire and being proud of his femininity. Over the last 2 years he found the perfect woman who helped him understand that being a CD is just a part of his psyche and that he should be perfectly content with living a double life. He now is happy as an alpha male most of the time, but also proud of being the sissy crossdresser the rest of the time.  Ms. Ava Durga discovered the fun of feminizing males in 2001, and has helped crossdressers, sissies, and bi-curious males achieve their potential at The Sissy Parlor in South Florida since 2017. She’s been a guiding force in helping them accept that their feminine side, often including the desire for receptive sexuality, is a key part of their psyche that they should embrace. To learn more visit https://circleofq.com/ Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Billy joins us to share his shameless slutty YET SAFE sexual adventures including installing a glory-hole in his apartment, masked outdoor blowjobs, getting jerked off by a FemDom and then cumming on her male sub's face, and more.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 10. About our guest: Billy Procida is a professional stand-up comedian, podcaster, and accidental gang-bang organizer. For over a decade, he's entertained audiences all over the country and can be seen at comedy clubs around New York City. His show The Manwhore Podcast: A Sex-Positive Quest for Love was named a Top Sex Podcast by Esquire and Uproxx three years in a row, and his sex & dating advice has been featured in outlets like Cosmo, YourTango, Men's Health, and more. Oh, and his father is finally proud of him. To learn more visit ManwhorePod.com/itunes Other links: Get Feeld - our favorite dating app - FREE + 50% off your first 3 months of the Majestic Membership by clicking here or going to this link: https://feeld.app.link/shameless50 Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

Ian Kerner, PhD, joins us to talk about why he asks all of his clients the question, So Tell Me About the Last Time You Had Sex (also the title of his new book), and how this question helps uncover couple's repetitive sex scripts. He also shares tips on how to re-write old sex scripts for more sex and better intimacy, as well as ways to "turn off" to really turn on.  We also answer a sex question: My wife has never had an orgasm. How can I help her achieve one + open up more sexually?  Ian Kerner is a licensed psychotherapist and nationally recognized sexuality counselor who specializes in sex therapy, couples therapy, and working with individuals on a range of relational issues. He is also the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and many more, including his latest book So Tell Me About The Last Time You Had Sex, helping couples achieve more intimacy and better sex. He is a Clinical Fellow of the American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists; certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (where he also sits on the board); the Society for Sex Therapy and Research; and the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy. To learn more visit iankerner.com Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% off delicious, organic, ready to eat meals with code SHAMELESS at sakara.com/shameless Get 15% off of some of our favorite sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast    

How can what feels like the ultimate betrayal turn into the ultimate blessing? How can folks navigate the feeling of their lives/world falling apart - especially when it comes to breakups and divorce? And what if you have kids? Tammy Letherer, author of The Buddha at My Table, answers all this and more.  Want to skip to the interview? Fast forward to minute 25. About our guest: Tammy Letherer is an author, writing coach, and blogger. She holds a degree in Journalism from Indiana University and has enjoyed a long and varied professional writing career. In addition to The Buddha at My Table, Letherer is also the author of the novel, Hello Loved Ones and the children’s book, My Health is in My Hands. She lives in Chicago with her three children. Read her blogs on Huffington Post or learn more about her work at TammyLetherer.com. Also visit her on Facebook, Twitter, and LinkedIn. Other links: Get 10% off + free shipping with code SHAMELESSSEX on Uberlube AKA our favorite lubricant at uberlube.com Get $5 off while mastering the art of pleasure at OMGyes.com/shameless Get 20% Off and Free Shipping with the code Shameless at Manscaped.com Get up to $200 off your customized dream mattress + two free pillows at helixsleep.com/shameless Get 15% off all of your sex toys with code SHAMELESSSEX at purepleasureshop.com Want to try one of our favorite boutique wines? Get 10% off of 3 bottles or more with code SHAMELESSSEX10 or 15% off of 6 bottles or more with come SHAMELESSSEX15 at marginswine.com Buy some Shameless Sex swag while supporting a good cause when you visit teepublic.com/stores/shameless-sex-podcast