Victoria Hudson on Desire, Consent, and Reclamation

Today, I get to sit down with someone whose brain I’ve wanted to borrow for a long time. My guest is Victoria Hudson, the founder and clinical powerhouse behind Restorative Resilience Counseling. She’s one of those rare therapists who has lived on the front lines of justice work, spending nearly fifteen years advocating for survivors of sexual exploitation and trafficking before bringing that fire and depth into clinical practice. Victoria has built a therapeutic space that’s honest, curious, trauma-informed, sex-positive, and radically welcoming. What’s especially exciting is that she’s now intentionally expanding beyond a traditional private practice model, growing Restorative Resilience into a broader wellness community that treats the wellbeing of clinicians as just as essential as the care we provide to clients. Her vision is slow, thoughtful, and deeply strategic, investing in clinicians at every stage of their professional journey and celebrating the real, hard-won progress toward more accessible and humanizing care becoming the norm rather than the exception. She works with people who’ve spent years being dismissed or misunderstood, whether that’s because they’re neurodivergent, chronically ill, recovering from abuse, or trying to reclaim their identity after a lifetime of being told who they’re supposed to be. She’s the clinician people seek out when they’re ready to challenge old narratives, explore consent and autonomy in real ways, and finally put themselves back at the center of their own life. Victoria describes therapy as a ‘creative exploration of possibilities,’ which is exactly the kind of phrase that tells you she’s both brilliant and grounded. Her work lives at the intersection of trauma, chronic illness, identity, sexuality, empowerment, and clinician sustainability, and she approaches all of it with a clarity and compassion that makes complicated things feel human again. So today, we’re diving into all of it: consent as a lived experience, the overlaps between trauma and neurodivergence, why so many clients with dysautonomia end up running self-advocacy marathons, what empowerment actually looks like in daily practice, how clinicians survive systems that were never built for them, and how healing becomes possible when someone finally has permission to speak their truth. This is going to be smart, tender, nerdy, a little rebellious, and genuinely transformative. This is The Sexy Nerd Podcast, and I am thrilled to welcome the incredible Victoria Hudson.”

Sensual Reclamation

Kaytlin Bailey is a sex worker rights advocate, comedian, and writer, best known as the Founder and Executive Director of Old Pros, a nonprofit media organization dedicated to reshaping society’s understanding of sex work. She is the creator and host of The Oldest Profession Podcast, where each episode spotlights a historical “old pro”—her term for exploring the lives and legacies of sex workers across time. Her acclaimed one-woman shows include The Oldest Profession, a sweeping 10,000-year tour of history from a sex worker’s perspective, and Cuntagious, which she debuted in 2015. Before launching Old Pros, Kaytlin served as the founding Director of Communications for Decriminalize Sex Work, an advocacy organization deeply shaped by her own experiences navigating the fallout from SESTA/FOSTA. Her work has been featured in major outlets, and she has spoken at universities including Yale Law School, the University of Pennsylvania, and UCLA. I had the privilege of discussing history, decriminalization, and the beautiful sex worker community with Kaitlyn. It was amazing. Here are her links Website- https://oldprosonline.org Podcast(Spotify) https://open.spotify.com/show/2QbyAjZ7aNJFSgL0R8sa2y?si=5d24ddaf527b4ae8Podcast (Apple) https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-oldest-profession-podcast/id1296601569

Nerding Out about Sex Work and History with Kaytlin  Bailey

The Sexy Nerd Podcast is a Champion of sex, inclusion, psychotherapy, and just plain nerdiness. I got the chance to sit down with Ambrosia Ross. She is one of the founders of Theatre of Dice, an online D&amp;D business that operates an inclusive gaming outlet. We discuss gaming in an inclusive space. This is very important in the Nerd Community. Check out our talk. Below are the links for Theatre of Dice if you are Interested Youtube:https://www.youtube.com/@TheaterOfDice Tik Tok:https://www.tiktok.com/@theaterofdice Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/TheaterofDice Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/theaterofdice Threads:https://www.threads.com/@theaterofdice Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/theaterofdice

Theatre of Dice: Inclusive D&D

On this episode, we spoke with Jule, who is&nbsp;a trauma-informed Sexologist and Intimacy Coach trained in the Somatica® Method. Jule brings depth, intuition, playfulness, and magnetism to her coaching sessions as she lovingly guides clients into living more authentic and connected lives.&nbsp;Immersed in eros and passion for over 17 years in Italy, Jule cultivated a joy for living and was introduced to the art of Sacred Sexuality. Harnessing her credentials, she helps her clients release toxic shame and accept themselves fully so that they may feel empowered and worthy of pleasure in all aspects of their lives. Particularly talented at nurturing and embodying playful seduction, she offers people a unique, experiential, and powerful process to transform their relationships, cultivate secure, nourishing attachments, and live more passionately.&nbsp;

Core Desires and the Body w/ Jule

With Jamie Azar CSRC

Welcome to the sex nerd podcast. I am your comic book-loving sex therapist host, Tim Baxter. On today's show, we dive into the transformative journey of deconstructing limiting beliefs, reframing negative thought patterns, and destigmatizing societal narratives around sex, identity, and relationships. Discover how to identify and challenge internalized myths that hinder personal growth, using narrative therapy and cognitive-behavioral strategies to rewrite your story. We explore creating a safe, non-judgmental space to embrace authentic self-concepts, tackling topics like sexual orientation, non-traditional relationships, and body image to foster empowerment and self-acceptance with Jamie Azar. Jamie Azar is a sex, relationship, and intimacy coach, educator, writer, and mindfulness practitioner, and owner of Erotic Expressions, where she gives people a nonjudgmental, confidential, and safe space to unleash their inner prisons and reclaim their right to pleasure. She specializes in helping people turn shame off and turn pleasure on through dismantling limiting beliefs, deconstructing, and destigmatizing harmful narrative constructs, and by helping clients reframe and redefine their understandings of selfhood, sex, sexuality, and relationships. She also integrates somatic-based therapy, breathing, relaxation, and focus techniques to further encourage the mind-body connection and to help clients develop tools to regulate their nervous systems. Ultimately, her work empowers people to live their most authentic lives, beyond pressure and expectations, and to embrace their unique erotic expressions.

Deconstructing and Reframing Sexual Narratives Using the Community

In this week's episode, I had the privilege of speaking about motherhood, menopause, and sexuality with Dawn Moore. Dawn Moore is the founder of Mama Comes First, a pioneering sexual wellness platform for mothers of all stages, backgrounds, and identities. She is also a triple board-certified Advanced Nurse Practitioner (specializing in Mental Health &amp; Women’s Health), Sex Educator, Midwife, and Mom of 4 (ages 5-18). Through education, community, and bold advocacy, Dawn is on a mission to help mothers break free from the patriarchal capitalist norms that keep them exhausted, isolated, and ‘in line’. She believes that sexual liberation for mothers is an integral part of our world’s collective liberation, because when empowered mothers come together, systems of oppression come apart.When Dawn isn’t revolutionizing motherhood, you might find her tending to her plants, redecorating her home and camper, or bopping away at a music festival. She also runs a small photography business, and used to be a circus and aerial artist. She loves sunrises and sunsets, salads that she doesn’t have to make, cold brew, chocolate, and orgasms. Rainbow and sparkles are her favorite colors.

Mama Comess First

Welcome, fellow otaku, to a deep dive into the wild world of anime tropes and their surprising impact on our perceptions of romance and desire! Grab your favorite plushie, settle into your comfiest chair, and let’s unravel the quirkiness of characters like Tsunderes, Yanderes, and those ever-elusive Unattainable Love Interests that keep our hearts racing and our minds ponder

Sexuality in Anime: Breaking Down Misoggynistic and Other Harmful Tropes

Role-playing games (RPGs) have become a popular medium for storytelling, creativity, and social interaction. They provide players with the opportunity to assume different characters, navigate complex narratives, and engage with others in imaginative scenarios. However, as with any form of interaction, especially those involving complex emotional and social dynamics, the topic of consent becomes crucial. This episode explores how RPGs can serve as a valuable tool for exploring and understanding consent in various contexts, including sexual relationships and personal boundaries.

Exploring Consent with Role-Playing Games: A Guide to Healthy Interaction

Vote Harris!!!!!!!

Trump has issues with Impulsivity, Lack of Accountability, and Polarizing Communication, we all know that. Here are some things that as a Sex Therapist I see him having Issues with. He clearly Objectifies Women, He has questionable attitudes towards consent, He has been unfaithful to every wife, and he is toxically masculine

Why Trump is a Dangerous Pick for President, Through the eyes of a Sex Therapist

🎙️ Discover The Sexy Nerd Podcast! 🎙️Join Timothy Baxter, MS, LCPC, LCT-C, CST, a Cross Border Sex Therapist from New Brunswick, Canada, as he explores the fascinating intersection of sex therapy and nerd culture.In each episode, Timothy engages in candid discussions about sexual health, relationships, and the unique ways that nerd culture influences our understanding of intimacy. Whether you're a fan of comic books, video games, or just curious about enhancing your personal relationships, this podcast offers valuable insights, expert advice, and a welcoming environment for all listeners.Subscribe now to expand your knowledge and join an engaging community that celebrates both sexuality and nerdiness!

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