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Sextras

Where we talk about sex and all the extras


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  • 12. How To Reconnect With Your Sexuality, And Your Anger (With Zoe K)

    38:50||Season 4, Ep. 12
    In this episode of Sextras, Honey speaks to Zoe K, a sophrologist and somatic coach ‘for the girls, gays, and theys’. For as long as heterosexuality has been ‘the norm’, queer people have been forced into disconnect with their bodies, which naturally has a knock on effect on confidence. Zoe tells us how sophrology – a blend of meditation, mindfulness, and breathwork – can help us feel in harmony with our bodies during sex again. She shares her experience being neurodivergent and a sex worker, and how those factors can also contribute to disconnect, as well as how breathwork can help get out of your mind during sex.To end the episode, Honey and Zoe discuss how sexuality and being present in your body is a radical act in a world where productivity is championed.Thanks so much for listening. You can find Zoe on Instagram, TikTok, and her website, where there are plenty of links to learn more about sophrology. As always, you can find Sextras on on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. We want to hear your queer sex and dating stories, dilemmas, and questions. Email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com, leave us an anonymous message on our website, or DM us on Instagram to get in touch.Produced and hosted by Honey Jane Wyatt. Edited by Leanne Marie Hall.

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  • 11. Queer Community, Dark Rooms, And Sexual Wellness (With HOWL's Samuel Douek)

    49:10||Season 4, Ep. 11
    Happy Pride month! In case it wasn't clear already, we're huge fans of the LGBTQ+ community here at Sextras, so we'll be publishing an episode a week for the rest of the month. This week, Honey talks to Samuel Douek, founder of HOWL, a sexual wellness brand and queer, sex-positive rave. Samuel tells us all about his journey into starting the brand, including why he was drawn to running queer nightlife. We talk about the challenges of running a dark room and marketing a queer-friendly CBD lube in a world where sexual wellness is increasingly censored. Samuel even shares some upcoming launches and changes to HOWL raves to look out for.You can find Honey's favourite lube here, info about upcoming parties here, and follow Samuel and HOWL on Instagram to keep up with what they have coming up.As always, you can find Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. We want to hear your queer sex and dating stories, dilemmas, and questions. Email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com, leave us an anonymous message on our website, or DM us on Instagram to get in touch. Don't forget to leave a review wherever you're listening to support us! It's Pride month, don't let us down (or else...). Produced by Honey Jane Wyatt.

  • 10. Does Orgasm Have To Be The Goal? (With Smile Makers Collection's Samantha Marshall)

    01:03:35||Season 4, Ep. 10
    Happy Masturbation May! To mark one of the best months of the year (IMO) we're talking all about orgasms, and whether they need to be the goal during sex or masturbation.To start the episode, Honey talks to our deputy editor, Lucy, about faking orgasms. We discuss how the female orgasm varies from the male orgasm, and why the orgasm rates are different for women in straight relationships versus queer relationships.Honey then talks to Samantha Marshall, head of brand at Smile Makers Collection. Sam explains why the orgasm gap exists, and how that varies between sex and masturbation.We then delve into why women should take their pleasure seriously – both solo and with partners – and how we can approach masturbation more mindfully.You can find Lucy on Instagram and Substack. Smile Makers Collection has 11 incredible vibrators, and a pelvic floor device, and you can find them on Instagram, too.As always, you can find Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. Leave us a review (so I can keep getting amazing guests!) or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt.

  • 9. What It’s Like To Be A Single On Temptation Island S2 With Kai Stone (Duh)

    33:09||Season 4, Ep. 9
    If we're at all similar, you'll have been just as obsessed as I was with Temptation Island Season 2. It was the kind of show I had a million questions about: why would anyone go on it in the first place? What is it like to be on the show? Did the cast have any regrets? And, no shade, but the reunion didn't answer most of them. Thankfully, on this week's episode of the podcast I got to sit down with Kai Stone, one of the singles on Temptation Island Season 2 (of 'duh' fame) to talk all about why he went on the show, whether he enjoyed it, and the truth about dating on camera for a reality TV show.You can find Kai on Instagram or TikTok @kaistone808. As always, you can find Sextras on Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and our website. Leave us a review (so I can keep getting amazing guests!) or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt.

  • 8. Lesbian Labels, Sex Toys, And Beginner Tips (With Katie From Labeless)

    43:47||Season 4, Ep. 8
    Happy Lesbian Visibility Week 2026! On this week's episode, I'm joined by Katie, founder of Labeless, a queer sex toy company. Katie tells me all about her latest release (hint: it's a sapphic sex toy) and we jump into why labels are sometimes problematic when it comes to lesbian sex.I ask Katie what kinds of sex toys can be used during lesbian sex, and how beginners or couples can start to integrate sex toys more in the bedroom. Thank you so much to Katie for joining! Labeless is on Instagram or you can shop the full collection here. You can find more of Sextras on our Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and website. Leave us a review or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.We'll see you in a couple of weeks! If you like reality TV, you'll want to stick around for this one.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt

  • 7. Working For A Female-Led Porn Company (With Ersties' Cat)

    01:00:07||Season 4, Ep. 7
    Internet feminism has latched onto a long-contested debate: can you work in porn and be a feminist? In this episode, Honey is joined by Cat, the head of creative, community at education at female-led porn company Ersties, to mull it over.They talk about what it's really like working for a female-led porn company, how it made Cat realise she wanted to date women, what the state of the porn industry is like today, and whether you can really be a feminist and work in porn. You can find Cat on Instagram and Ersties on their free SFW website or paid platform, and on Instagram and TikTok.You can find more of Sextras on our Substack, Instagram, TikTok, and website. Leave us a review or get in touch with us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with questions, dilemmas, or what you want to hear next.We'll see you in a couple of weeks with our next episode ahead of Lesbian Visibility Day. See you then!Produced and hosted by Honey Jane Wyatt.

  • 6. How To Have More Sex (When No One Is)

    44:59||Season 4, Ep. 6
    This episode we’re joined by sex and relationships educator, coach, and sexologist, Amari Leigh to talk about how you can have better luck in sex and dating. Everyone’s in a situationship nowadays, and no one’s fucking! (We don’t have to tell you, we’re sure). If you need a little extra helping hand, Amari joins to give us her dating and sex tips.Thanks for listening! You can find Amari on her admin website or her sex coaching website. As always, you can find us on Instagram, TikTok, Substack (where you can find an extended version of this episode) and our website. Get in touch with us there or email us at sextraspodcast@gmail.com with your questions, confessions, or what you want to see next.See you in a couple of weeks with the next episode. Byeeeee.Hosted and produced by Honey Jane Wyatt