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62: Rewriting Your Story: The Hidden Beliefs That Are Holding You Back
Ep. 62
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In this episode of Self Discovery Gal, we’re diving into the stories and internal narratives that quietly shape your decisions, relationships, boundaries and sense of self.
If you’ve ever felt stuck in the same patterns, struggled with self-sabotage, or caught yourself saying “that’s just the way I am,” this conversation will help you understand what’s really running the show.
You’ll learn:
- What your “story” actually is and how it forms
- Common limiting beliefs many women carry
- How your nervous system and body hold these narratives
- Why awareness alone isn’t enough
- How embodiment and somatic practices help rewrite old patterns safely
This episode is about building self-awareness without self-judgment, understanding your patterns with compassion, and learning how to stop letting outdated stories define your future.
If you’re ready to stop living from survival-based narratives and start choosing from a more embodied, self-trusting place then this one’s for you.
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