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SAYO SAYS: "Therapy, spiritual acne, Ms. Rachel & does everything happen for a reason?" | ep.003
Season 1, Ep. 3
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š Welcome back to ep.3 of Sayo Says! And if youāre joining for the first time, donāt forget to go back and watch the previous episodes !
Iām your host, Adesayo, but you can call me Sayo,and Iām so happy to have you here.
In this episode we talk about:
šļøš©šæāāļøTherapy and forgiveness
š® Over-spiritualising and pathologizing
š¤ Does everything really happen for a reason?
š©š»āš« š¶š¾š¦š¼Ms. Rachel and parasocial relationships
šæThis episode is a must watch if youāre thinking about starting therapy, and want to listen to unfiltered, and unapologetic conversations about life and different perspectives.
If you love nuance and a good story time, and thinking beyond the surface, then youāre going to love this show!
š¬ Let me know in the comments: Have you considered starting thearpy?
Does your parent over-spiritualise things in your life? Is Ms. Rachel the problem or has pathologising gone too far?
In this episode, weāre talking about therapy and my experience with it so far. We are also questioning if ā everything happens for a reasonā and why I donāt agree with the statement. This weekās episode strikes a good balance between fun and light playful, but also touches on some deeper topics that will hopefully leave you with lots to think about.
Thank you for watching.
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