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How the Qareen Makes Sin Feel Necessary | Sahil Adeem Podcast

(0:00) Intro: What Is a Qareen in Islam?

(0:06) How Waswasa Influences the Human Mind

(0:36) The Boycott Example: When Desire Is Disguised as a Need

(1:10) Changing Your Principles to Match Your Desires

(1:40) Understanding the Qareen as an External Influence

(2:23) Neuroscience, Negativity Bias, and Intrusive Thoughts

(3:05) Why Understanding This Is So Important

(3:14) When an Impulse Feels Like a Necessity

(4:03) How the Brain Justifies Bad Decisions

(4:28) Using Religion to Justify Personal Desires

(5:11) Overeating, Peer Pressure, and the Nafs

(5:30) Mortgages, Haram, and Self-Deception

(6:11) When Arrogance Feels Like Confidence

(6:41) Pushing Others Aside in the Name of Confidence

(7:01) The Excuses We Make Before Acting Arrogantly

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