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Teuila Blakely on Shortland Street, Snapchat Scandal, Relationship with Oscar Kightley & More!

Teuila Blakely is a total bad-ass and this was such a treat.


You may know her from her work on the old music channel C4, or Shortland Street, Bro-Town, Sione's Wedding or even DWTS or a zillion other things.

But this is less about her career and more about her journey- some pivotal moments that have shaped her personal and professional life.


From the challenges of being raised by a very tough mum, to then becoming a teenage solo-mum, humiliating experiences with racism, her beautiful friendship with her ex-fiancé Oscar Kightely, how she went from McDonalds to movies and so much more. Including THAT snap-chat incident.


Teuila is a genuine trailblazer, and it was an honor to have her share some of the less glamourous aspects of her life.

She is as authentic as it gets and an open book.

 

This episode is brought to you by Generate – award-winning KiwiSaver specialists.


If you’re like I was, you probably haven’t thought much about your KiwiSaver account. Most of us just signed up when we started working and left it at that. But checking if you’re in the right fund and making the most of your account can really boost your retirement lifestyle.


Thats where Generate can help.


Their KiwiSaver advisers can meet with you to go over your options, and make sure your investment is working for you.

Head to generatekiwisaver.co.nz/dom/ to request a no-obligation chat with one of their advisers.


Your future self will thank you for it!


A copy of their product disclosure statement is available on their website. The issuer of the scheme is Generate Investment Management Limited and past performance does not guarantee future returns.

 

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