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Nigel Latta: What Really Matters When You’re Told You’re Dying
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On the 30th of September 2025, Nigel Latta passed away. He was only 58.
The week before, he went to see his oncologist and was given the heartbreaking news his body couldn’t take any more treatment.
He arrived at the meeting optimistic but pivoted to acceptance immediately.
That sums up Nigel Latta- he died the way he lived: brave, courageous, fearless, resilient, considerate.
This episode was originally recorded in 2024, not long after Nigel Latta received his terminal cancer diagnosis. It is being re-released now, following his recent passing, with deep respect for the extraordinary man he was.
What you're about to watch is not a conversation about death — it's a powerful reflection on life. In this interview, Nigel speaks with clarity, humour, humility and strength about facing the end, loving deeply, working with purpose, and the beauty of being human — flaws, fumbles, feelings and all.
He talks openly about:
- Getting the diagnosis and telling his family
- Practising the resilience he once taught
- Confronting mortality without fear
- What really matters in the end
- Why he doesn't care about legacy
- Regrets, gratitude, and learning how to just “be”
Nigel was many things: psychologist, broadcaster, author, mentor, mate. But above all, he was real - and this conversation is one of the most honest things you’ll ever hear.
Rest easy, Nigel. Thank you for everything.
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Massive thanks to my long-term podcast sponsors, Generate.
If I could ask you to do one big favour — for me and for yourself — it would be to consider getting KiwiSaver advice from Generate, like I did.
The decisions you make with your KiwiSaver now could have a big impact on how much you have to live on in retirement. And if you’ve never had KiwiSaver advice before, you could be missing out.
Generate has a strong track record of long-term performance — You can check out their latest returns on their website.
They also have advisers who can come to you and help you figure out the right KiwiSaver setup for your goals — no pressure, just good advice.
I met with one when Generate came on board as a sponsor back in 2023 — and honestly, I wish I’d done it sooner.
Head to generatekiwisaver.co.nz/dom to book a chat
The issuer of the scheme is Generate Investment Management Limited. To see their Product disclosure statement see generatekiwisaver.co.nz/pds Past performance does not guarantee future returns.
And just a reminder — everyone’s situation is different, so I recommend getting expert advice before making any financial decisions.
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