The Dom Harvey Podcast

Steven Setu is one of the most polarizing voices in New Zealand social media: part comedian, part shock-jock, part internet troll. Love him or hate him, Steven Setu gets clicks and people watch...and watch...and watch!In this brutally honest conversation, Steven opens up in ways he never has before.Between the hot takes, the outrageous claims and the controversy, we meet the little boy from West Auckland who grew up without a father, was bullied, struggled with weight and identity, and built an exterior as thick as concrete.But we also see the softness that sits just beneath the surface, especially when he speaks about his mother, his family, and his desire to “never give up.”Across nearly two hours, Steven and I discuss masculinity, mental health, cancel culture, freedom of speech, bullying, body image, resilience and much much more.As always with these conversations- the goal remains the same- to get a greater understanding of a person, their actions and their thought processes through non- judgmental long form conversation.This is Steven Setu: unfiltered, challenged, and closer than ever before. 

This is Shaun Winstanley's first podcast and its an honour to have him on mine, because as you will learn within a few short minutes- Shaun is not a man who is comfortable talking about himself. He is a guest who represents what it means to come back from the unthinkable. On July 20 2023, detective and tactical operator Shaun Winstanley ran into a busy high rise building in Central Auckland’s commercial bay area after an active shooter opened fire. Minutes later, in a dark lift shaft, Shaun was shot in the face at point-blank range. He survived. Barely. And somehow, he found a way not just to recover, but to rebuild.In this episode, Shaun takes us inside that day with remarkable clarity: From racing into the CBD at high speed with sirens blasting, to passing terrified victims on the stairwell, to the exact moment the gunman fired and Shaun realized his teeth were shattered. This conversation is gripping, it’s confronting… and unbelievably human. Shaun talks about:: The THREE rules that helped him stay mentally strong. The long slow recovery.His feelings about the gunman Why he created a game-changing beverage as part of his healing process. And why he still feels the pull to return to the police. ***Massive thanks to my long-term podcast sponsors, Generate.Generate has a strong track record of long-term performance: You can check out their latest returns on their website.They also have advisers who can come to you and help you figure out the right KiwiSaver setup for your goals. No pressure, just good advice.Head to generatekiwisaver.co.nz/dom to book a chat The issuer of the scheme is Generate Investment Management Limited. To see their Product disclosure statement see generatekiwisaver.co.nz/pds Past performance does not guarantee future returns. And just a reminder, everyone’s situation is different, so I recommend getting expert advice before making any financial decisions.The emotional moment he reunited with his sons after waking from a coma. And why he still feels the pull to return to the police. And the game-changing protein-coffee beverage "Firebird" he has poured all his energy into as part of his healing process

Brando Pericic (AKA The Balkin Bear) is a UFC fighter. He made his debut in Perth in September.  He won it in under 2 minutes in an explosive, violent and very fast fight.This conversation is an intriguing look into the mindset of a very exciting UFC fighter with a huge future ahead of him.                                                                 He has a goal and a dream to be the best in the world…and after connecting with him I have no doubt that he will succeed.In this conversation, we talk about his viral post-fight speech that included a smattering of words that earned him a telling off from his family in Adelaide.His backstory which helped build the man he is today- things like the grief of losing close friends, going to visit his father in jail, being stabbed, finding himself homeless and some brutal mental health battles that almost cost him his life. We talk sacrifice, purpose and the dream he’s chasing now to become one of the greatest heavyweights on Earth.This conversation has so many layers to it: it’s emotional, inspiring, confronting, funny, and unbelievably honest.                                                                                   I promise you, after listening to this episode you will be fan and follower of "The Balkin Bear" for his entire career.

Martin Snedden is a man who’s been at the centre of some of the biggest moments in New Zealand sport.He played cricket for NZ in through the 1980s and was part of the infamous 1981 underarm match against Australia. He was one of the original members of the Beige Brigade and he’s got stories about playing with legends like Hadlee, Cairns and Crowe that are absolutely priceless.But that’s only chapter one of his life.After he retired as a player, Martin became CEO of New Zealand Cricket. He dealt with player strikes, bomb blasts outside team hotels, billion-dollar broadcast deals, and the politics behind international sport.Then he took on the job of running the 2011 Rugby World Cup, the tournament that turned New Zealand into a “stadium of four million” and became one of this country’s great success stories.Now in his 60s he’s as sharp, driven and purpose-filled as ever.This conversation is full of nostalgia, leadership lessons, wild behind-the-scenes stories, and some really vulnerable reflections near the end about family, fear, purpose and what matters most.I loved this chat: Snedds is generous, thoughtful, funny, and genuinely one of the good guys.****Massive thanks to my long-term podcast sponsors, Generate.Generate is an award-winning KiwiSaver provider with a track record of delivering strong long-term returns for their clients- you can see their latest returns for yourself on their website.I became a client when they came on board as the show sponsor and it’s been a gamechanger for me personally- I wish I’d done it ’m kicking myself for not doing it years earlier.You can book a no obligation chat with one of their awesome KiwiSaver advisers at generatekiwisaver.co.nz/domThe issuer of the scheme is Generate Investment Management Limited. To see their Product disclosure statement see generatekiwisaver.co.nz/pdsPast performance does not guarantee future returns.And just a reminder — I’m a podcast host, not a financial adviser, so this is just general advice. I recommend getting expert advice before making any financial decisions.

Today’s episode is a genuine honour.I’m joined by Amanda McLaren, the daughter and the only child of legendary Kiwi motorsport pioneer Bruce McLaren, the man whose name still sits proudly on the nose of every McLaren Formula One car.This conversation goes far deeper than F1 racing. Amanda shares stories that only she can tell, including:+ How Bruce overcame Perthes Disease as a child: bedridden for two years and told he may never walk again.+ What he was really like as a husband and a father, through Amanda’s memories, her mother’s stories, and the letters he wrote home from overseas.+ The day her father died, and how she slowly pieced together what had happened through books and films rather than being told directly.+ The remarkable strength of her mother, Patty, who not only lost Bruce but also lost a second child in the same period.+ Behind-the-scenes stories from inside the McLaren Technology Centre.+ And does she cheer for Liam Lawson when no one’s watching.This is one of those rare interviews where history, innovation, family legacy, and emotion all collide in the most beautiful way. It’s a privilege to help share the story of the Kiwi boy from Remuera who changed motorsport forever - through the daughter who carries his name.

In this deeply moving and also surprisingly funny episode, Mark Wilson joins me on the podcast.Better known by his nickname “Wobbles”, a title he has proudly reclaimed. Mark has cerebral palsy, but he makes it clear from the outset: this isn’t a sad story. It’s a story about grit, love, resilience, savage humour, and carving out a life he’s genuinely proud of.Mark’s new book Wobbles pulls back the curtain on his early years, the intense therapy program that defined his childhood, the brutal bullying that shaped his teens, and the enormous sacrifices his parents made to give him a fighting chance. Today, Mark is a business analyst at ANZ, drives a V8 Holden Kingswood, loves Devilskin, and is raising a blended family with his partner Elise.Mark’s honesty is a gift: especially when he speaks about finding self-worth, surviving suicidal ideation and navigating dating with CP.****Massive thanks to my long-term podcast sponsors, Generate.Generate is an award-winning KiwiSaver provider with a track record of delivering strong long-term returns for their clients- you can see their latest returns for yourself on their website.I became a client when they came on board as the show sponsor and it’s been a gamechanger for me personally- I’m kicking myself for not doing it years earlier.You can book a no obligation chat with one of their awesome KiwiSaver advisers at generatekiwisaver.co.nz/domThe issuer of the scheme is Generate Investment Management Limited. To see their Product disclosure statement see generatekiwisaver.co.nz/pdsPast performance does not guarantee future returns.And just a reminder — I’m a podcast host, not a financial adviser, so this is just general advice. I recommend getting expert advice before making any financial decisions.

Jay Pukepuke went from a rugby league player with huge potential- he was a Warriors age-grade star and on track for a career in the NRL. Then he went off the rails and committed 15 armed robberies which saw him incarcerated for six years across some of New Zealand’s toughest prisons.Since then he has become a father, a mentor, an author, and the co-founder of an organization called “Bros for Change.”Inside this episode, Jay opens up about::The adrenaline addiction that drove him into crimeHearing another inmate being beaten to death in a neighboring cellThe shame he still carries for the victimsThe moment he finally realized he had to change and so much more!His book Inner Warrior captures this journey on the page, but hearing him speak it is something else entirely. Jay is funny, confronting, and incredibly honest about the man he used to be… and the man he’s become.If you like redemption arcs, this one is as authentic as they come. 

She built a fashion empire from a farm shed.She survived public pile-ons that would crush most people.She made millions, lost millions, and found her true purpose inside New Zealand’s women’s prisons.At 65, Anna Stretton is sharper, tougher, funnier, and more unapologetically herself than ever…and her story is wild.In this conversation, Annah S opens up about:The thrill of making $500,000 profit in her first yearThe humiliation of a cease-and-desist when she ripped off an American shoe brand.What she’s learned from 12 years working with incarcerated women. And so much more!This is an absolute masterclass in entrepreneurship, resilience, reinvention, and staying relentlessly true to yourself, especially when the world tries to knock you down.****Massive thanks to my long-term podcast sponsors, Generate.Generate is an award-winning KiwiSaver provider with a track record of delivering strong long-term returns for their clients- you can see their latest returns for yourself on their website.I became a client when they came on board as the show sponsor and it’s been a gamechanger for me personally- I’m kicking myself for not doing it years earlier.You can book a no obligation chat with one of their awesome KiwiSaver advisers at generatekiwisaver.co.nz/domThe issuer of the scheme is Generate Investment Management Limited. To see their Product disclosure statement see generatekiwisaver.co.nz/pds Past performance does not guarantee future returns.And just a reminder — I’m a podcast host, not a financial adviser, so this is just general advice. I recommend getting expert advice before making any financial decisions.

At 17, Mitch Wilson thought he was just an exhausted teenager. But dizziness, daily vomiting, and excruciating headaches escalated into something far more sinister: a brain tumour that went undiagnosed for over a year due to medical neglect. The delay cost him most of his eyesight… but not his spirit.In this conversation, Mitch opens up about:The terror of going to sleep wondering if he’d wake up completely in the darkThe angry, self-destructive years that followedHow a German shepherd called Blaze and para-cycling helped pull him backGrief, therapy, purpose, and trying to figure out what life looks like now.Now a world-class para-cyclist and newly married, Mitch is still figuring out what life looks like in the long term. This is a story of survival, identity, sport, grief, love, and the stubborn refusal to give up. And it is one of those episodes that will stay with you.