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142. The Psychology of Sex Addiction - Patrick Eilers

Ep. 142

Patrick Eilers is a Master's level Clinician who's also a Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Michigan. He has been working in the field of psychology since 2016 and as a specialist in the field of sexual addiction.


Learn more about Patrick:

https://www.linkedin.com/in/patrick-eilers-ma-lpc-csat-acs-310036b9/


Timestamps:

0:08 How do I know if I’m addicted to porn?

3:10 Why has the internet become so sexualized?

9:19 What is ‘acting out’?

10;15 Substance vs Process addictions

13:12 Why is sexual activity considered shameful?

17:44 The typical male porn addict

27:54 The average male’s dating experience

35:04 Factors that lead to porn addiction / Disconnection leads to disorder

40:22 The keys to overcoming porn addiction

46:53 The hidden dangers of porn addiction

53:52 Partners often feel betrayed / Is porn addiction worse than cheating?

58:44 Why is porn addiction largely a male issue?

1:02:43 Can we separate love from sex?

1:12:39 Porn & OnlyFans affect both sexes

1:14:15 The remedy to porn and OnlyFans

1:25:44 What kind of person do you want to be?


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