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If You’re Feeling Invisible… Listen This
Season 7, Ep. 10
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If you’ve ever felt invisible - like you’ve lost yourself in motherhood, in expectations, or in always putting others first - this episode is for you.
In Real Women’s Stories, host Lisa Quait sits down with Christina Vidovich, ballroom dancer, podcaster, and founder of Women Getting Visible. Christina shares her journey of hiding behind baggy clothes and silence, before deciding to reclaim her voice, her confidence, and her visibility.
✨ What you’ll hear in this episode:
- How women can lose their identity after motherhood
- The cultural expectations that keep women small and silent
- Why confidence is more important than perfection
- Practical ways to start being visible (even if you don’t want the spotlight)
- The role of community in helping women feel seen, heard, and valued
This conversation is part of the build-up to the Women Getting Visible event - a space created for women who are ready to step out of the shadows and into their full selves.
👉 If you’re ready to stop hiding and start shining, listen to this.
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00:33 – From ballroom dancer to “invisible mum”
02:15 – Losing identity after motherhood
03:59 – Reinventing yourself in your 40s
05:27 – The wake-up call that sparked change
06:17 – Why speaking your truth is powerful
07:47 – Growing up with strict cultural expectations
10:12 – The unexpected start of a ballroom career
13:58 – Living large vs. being silenced
15:55 – Why Women Getting Visible was born
17:16 – What it feels like when women finally get visible
18:53 – Lessons from American vs British culture
20:36 – Confidence as her biggest accomplishment
22:51 – The moment Christina stopped hiding
23:55 – How to get visible without being in the spotlight
25:18 – Community as the key to visibility
30:13 – Closing reflections & final advice
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PR & Marketing: Kate Williams
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