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The biggest myth about work life balance with Collective Closets founders Fatuma and Laurinda Ndenzako
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When Fatuma and Laurinda Ndenzako from Collective Closets arrived at the studio, there was one word that immediately came to mind: icons. And as soon as you begin to listen, we think you’ll agree.
Today, we cover so much – two incredibly different fertility journeys, what it’s like to be in business with your sister, what they learned from their mum, why it felt like they had more to prove as women of colour in the fashion world, and why you don’t always want to go to your kids’ basketball training when work is exciting.
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