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Welcome back to Witching Hour – the show where two mums and sort of cousins figure out how to make work, work. Today on the show:
- We can’t afford our friends anymore: how cost of living pressures are reshaping friendships.
- Just because you can, doesn’t mean you should: why being the office ‘doer’ is holding women back and how to start saying no.
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