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Ratbag with Mel & Sam

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Ep. 24

Hey there you Rats!!! We're coming in hot for yet another 'Ratbag' episode hosted by your favourite queer comedy duo Mel & Sam. In this weeks episode Mel brings in a necessary unpacking on the obligatory social media follow we do with those we meet on dating aps, and how connected we feel to their lives, despite sometimes having never met them. We then open up our 'Bring Bring Bitch' hotline where a gorgeous listener has asked us how to navigate a certain queer conundrum they are in. There's then a mind boggling conspiracy about glitter and a 'Kick Ons' question aimed to split you rats right down the middle. Sex or Chat? That is the question. So go on, give us a spin you lil cutie!!

As always thanks for joining and see you on Thursday for another 'Ratfood'. 

Love you!


Mel & Sam



You can watch the full video form of this episode on YouTube HERE: https://bit.ly/MelAndSamYouTube


Follow Mel & Sam on Instagram (@themelandsam) to keep up with all things pod, live shows and other nonsense. And remember, our Bring Bring Bitch hotline is always open! You can also send submissions to ratbagpod@gmail.com!



Mel & Sam would like to acknowledge that Ratbag is being recorded on Stolen Land. 


The original custodians of this land have had a rich history of storytelling for over 65,000 years, and we pay our respects to the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation whose land we are recording Ratbag on. 


Treaties were never signed. Sovereignty was never ceded. Always was and always will be Aboriginal land.



A Grouse House Podcast

Recorded at Haven't You Done Well Productions

Produced by Thomas Zahariou & Lucy Bain


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