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Why They're Not The Right Partner For You
In this episode, we dive into one of the biggest questions in relationships: What makes a good partner vs. what makes the right partner?
We explore the subtle but powerful differences, why “good” doesn’t always mean “right,” and how to recognise when someone truly aligns with your values and your journey.
We also tackle a question many coparents struggle with: What does it mean to accept your coparent, but not tolerate bad behaviour?
From boundaries to communication, we break down what healthy acceptance looks like without enabling disrespect, inconsistency, or toxicity.
If you’re navigating dating, relationships, or the challenges of coparenting, this conversation will give you clarity and practical takeaways to move forward with confidence.
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