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The real Mitford Sisters - Debo 7

Season 2, Ep. 37
✨👧The Last Mitford Standing: How Debo Saved Chatsworth 🚜👑

In this final episode on Deborah Mitford, we witness how the baby sister turns into the savior of the family home, Chatsworth. Faced with an astronomical death duties, Debo threw out the old aristocratic rulebook. Giving Chatsworth away would have felt like an amputation, so she had to find a way to make money and transform a drafty ancestral monument into a thriving organisation and the economic heartbeat of the region.

But this isn't just a story of commercial plans and stately homes. We also peek behind the gilded curtain, looking at Debo’s candid reflections on Andrew’s battles with alcoholism, balanced against the genuine bright sides of their long marriage.

From the obscene dinner parties of Chatsworth’s past to the quiet, final years of the last living Mitford sister, join us as we say goodbye to the most surprising revolutionary.


Chapters: 

0:00:00 Intro & Recap (of lands, titles, and bananas)

0:02:35 Financial challenges of the past

0:07:18 … and then WWII happens

0:12:43 … and then the death duty happens

0:20:29 Inheritance, tax negotiations, and determination

0:25:50 Debo the trailblazer: a business plan for Chatsworth

0:33:03 Debo introducing more innovation

0:41:34 The wider impact on people and region

0:45:19 Chatsworth as a business today: eco- & community-friendly

0:48:21 The Chatsworth Trust (& obscene dinner stories from the past)

0:52:18 Debo’s opening up about Andrew and the alcohol

1:00:58 The bright sides of their marriage

1:04:25 The last years of the last of the Mitfords

1:06:11 Wrap & Outlook (What’s next? Any more Mitford Mischief?)


For everyone who wants to dive deeper into Debo’s life, we recommend her memoir “Wait for me!


And here’s the Chatsworth House website for everyone who wants to visit or find out more about it.


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Tags: #DeborahMitford #ChatsworthHouse #HouseOfDevonshire #BritishHistory #WomenInBusiness #TheMitfords #Aristocracy #NationalTrust

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