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237: Not Just Seen, But Heard: Rewriting the Rules for Women Who Were Told to Stay Quiet (with Christina Vidovich)
đď¸Ever feel like youâve checked all the boxesâcareer, family, lifeâand somehow youâve gone invisible in your own story? Like people see your title, your roles, your to-do list⌠but not you? Yeah, that stops here.
This week on Project Loving Myself, weâre calling BS on invisibility with Christina Vidovichâinternational speaker, podcaster, and the firestarter behind Women Getting Visible. Christina went from ballroom dancer to podcaster to creating a global movement, and trust me, sheâs not here for women playing small.
We get real about what happens when youâve been silenced (by society, by circumstance, or by yourself), and how scaryâbut wildly liberatingâit feels to finally step into visibility.
đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Learn:
⨠Why midlife can feel like a plot twist you didnât see coming and how to rewrite it
⨠The sneaky ways weâre conditioned to keep quiet (and how to break the habit)
⨠How to share your story without turning it into trauma dumping (yes, thereâs a line)
⨠Why community is the ultimate amplifier for your voice (because sisterhood hits different)
⨠Christinaâs own leap from hiding to hostingâand why your fear of speaking up is lying to you
đ BONUS: Christina drops the one mantra every woman needs when sheâs about to shrink back and stay silent.
đ ď¸ Wanna go deeper?
đď¸Listen to Christinaâs podcasts: Womenâs Health, Wealth & Happiness + Mindful Motivation
đFree Membership to the Women Getting Visible community
â¨Join the Women Getting Visible Conference
Tag @sanaiyahgurnamal, @projectlovingmyselfpodcast, and @christinavidovich with your favorite mic drop moment.
Because invisibility isnât an identityâitâs a habit. And babe, itâs time to break it. â¨
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241. 241: 3 Ways to Let Go (Even When You Donât Want To)
23:48||Ep. 241We talk a lot about âmoving on,â but what does that actually mean when your heart still replays the good parts like a broken Spotify loop? This weekâs episode is for anyone still low-key haunted by an old love, a âwhat if,â or a story that shouldâve ended years ago but somehow keeps sneaking into your present...Because you can't move on if you're still waiting for closure â you heal by choosing yourself.In This Episode, Youâll Learn:⨠The sneaky reason you canât stop thinking about your ex (hint: itâs not about them)⨠How to stop feeding the fantasy and finally see the relationship for what it was⨠The difference between closure and clarity â and why one sets you free⨠How to shift your energy from overthinking to actual healing⨠A few spicy mindset flips thatâll make you say, âOh⌠I get it now.âThis episode isnât about moving on â itâs about moving through the ache, the memories, the mess â and coming out softer, wiser, and way more in love with yourself on the other side.Get Started Here: Enroll in the Relationship Detox Program â release the past and reopen your heart in 5 days. Use code: REDOXFR at checkout to get it free.Book a Relationship Clarity Call â get personal guidance on whatâs really keeping you stuck.Take the Self-Love Scorecard â find out if your self-love is thriving or quietly surviving.So if your heartâs been craving clarity more than closure, this episode is your sign to finally tune in and set yourself free.
240. 240: What If Balance Isnât the Goal? The Magic of Flow Explained
10:27||Ep. 240âI just need more balance in my lifeâ is the modern-day mantra for Iâm one meltdown away from booking a one-way flight to Bali. âď¸Weâve been told that if we can just balance everything â work, relationships, family, self-care â weâll finally feel calm. But balance? Thatâs the real burnout.Because life isnât meant to sit perfectly still while you juggle all the pieces. This episode is your permission slip to stop performing balance and start practicing presence. To trade the pressure of âhaving it all togetherâ for the peace you actually want. đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Learn:⨠Why âbalanceâ is just a prettier word for burnout⨠The secret behind flow and why it feels so damn good⨠How to stop living by your to-do list and start following your energy⨠What it really means to feel calm without controlling everything⨠The mindset shift that makes life feel lighter (without quitting your responsibilities)Because maybe you donât need to manage your life like a spreadsheet â maybe you just need to let it move with you.Ready to go deeper?Take what you learned in this episode and turn it into real-life flow with these free tools designed to help you align, reset, and thrive:đż From Chaos to Calm: A Guided Journey to Emotional Balanceđ§ Book a Life Clarity Call â start honoring yourself the way you wish others wouldđ Take the Self-Love Scorecard â find out if your self-love is thriving or just quietly surviving in the backgroundđ§ Tune in now â and let this episode remind you that peace isnât found in perfection⌠itâs found in flow. đ
239. 239: The Freedom in Forgiveness: How to Let Go Without Losing Yourself with Grace Grossman
32:52||Ep. 239What if forgiveness isnât about letting someone off the hook but finally setting yourself free? đŤThis week weâre diving into the heart-healing power of forgiveness with Grace Grossmanâwellbeing coach, yoga teacher, and bestselling author of Chill Out and Cheer Up: A Ten-Step Guide.In this episode, Grace and Sanaiyah unpack how forgiveness becomes the foundation of self-love and how releasing guilt and resentment allows you to breathe easier, love yourself more, and finally move forward feeling lighter. They dive into the surprising ways resentment hides in your body, and the powerful tools that can help you finally release it all.đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Learn:⨠Why forgiveness isnât weakness, itâs freedom⨠How self-love helps you attract healthier, soul-aligned friendships⨠The power of community in healing and emotional growth⨠How to release guilt and finally make peace with your past⨠Daily practices that nurture compassion, trust, and inner safetyBecause when you forgive, you donât erase the pastâyou release its hold on your future. đżWant to connect with Grace?đą Follow her on Instagram: @healinghearts_hubwithgraceđ¸ Join her community: The Healing Hearts Hub ⨠Listen now to discover how forgiveness can help you love yourselfâand othersâmore deeply than ever before.
238. 238: The Worry Trap: How to Stop Overthinking What You Can't Control
11:40||Ep. 238How many nights have you laid in bed, wide awake, solving problems that donât even exist yet?We call it âbeing prepared,â but really, itâs just our anxiety doing the cha-cha on repeat. Youâre not solving problemsâyouâre just exhausting yourself in the name of control.This week, weâre getting real about worry: why it feels so addictive, what itâs really protecting you from, and how to finally break free from the mental hamster wheel thatâs been stealing your peace. Because letâs be honestâyour brain deserves a vacation, not another late-night worry meeting that couldâve been an email.đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Learn:⨠The sneaky reason worry feels productive (but totally isnât)⨠Whatâs actually hiding underneath that constant overthinking⨠Simple ways to retrain your mind to trust instead of spiral⨠A grounding practice to help you stop spinning and start breathing againđ Ready to raise the bar on how you treat yourself?âď¸ Grab the Success Blocks Checklist and spot the sneaky self-worth gaps you didnât even know were theređ§ Book a Life Clarity Call to start honoring yourself the way you wish others wouldđ Take the Self-Love Scorecard to see if your self-love is thriving or just surviving in the background.Because peace doesnât come from controlling everythingâit comes from remembering that youâre safe, capable, and more powerful than any âwhat ifâ your mind can come up with. â¨
236: The Only Promises That Matter Are the Ones You Keep to Yourself
13:53|Have you ever noticed how easy it is to keep promises to everyone else⌠but when it comes to yourself? Poof. Out the window.Youâll drag yourself to that 8 a.m. meeting, show up for a friendâs late-night drama, and say yes to commitments you never wanted to take on. But when it comes to your workout, an early bedtime, or precious family time? Suddenly, youâre âtoo busy,â âtoo tired,â or convincing yourself itâs okay to say âjust this once.â This is a slippery slope into self-neglect.Hereâs the hard truth: the toughest boundaries arenât the ones you set with other peopleâtheyâre the ones you set with yourself. And every time you break them, you chip away at your own self-trust. Ouch.But, hey, if you're ready to break this cycle, join me in Reconnection: The Inner Child Healing Workshop Every Woman Needs on October 11 to uncover the patterns you didnât even realize were running your life.This week on Project Loving Myself, weâre getting real about why the promises you make to yourself are the only ones that actually matterâand how to stop ghosting yourself like a bad Tinder date.đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Explore:⨠Why âjust this onceâ is secretly sabotaging your self-respect⨠How success can trick you into sacrificing what matters most⨠The difference between boundaries that protect and habits that betray⨠A simple way to define your top 3 non-negotiablesâand finally keep themSo⌠whatâs one promise youâre ready to stop breaking to yourself?đą Tag me @sanaiyahgurnamal + @projectlovingmyselfpodcast and let me cheer you on. Because at the end of the day, self-love isnât bubble bathsâitâs keeping your own damn word. â¨
235: The Upward Spiral: Why Your Messy Chapters Are Leading You Somewhere Higher with Teresa Herrera
41:55|What if every twist, detour, and messy chapter in your life isnât a setback, but rather an upward spiral guiding you closer to your true self? đThis week on Project Loving Myself, we dive into reinvention and soulful creativity with the incredible Teresa Herreraâa Manila-based model, actress, host, art consultant, and wellness advocate who continually rises, no matter the challenges she faces.From international runways to motherhood, from art to yoga, Teresa has learned that flowing with life (instead of controlling it) unlocks your most authentic power.The secret? You donât need to have it all figured out; just remain open to what your soul is calling you toward.đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Learn:⨠Why motherhood is the ultimate creative project⨠How to reinvent yourself without âlosingâ who you were before⨠The underrated magic of asking better questions: âWhat if?â and âWhat else can I do?â⨠Why your soul's blueprint lies in the visions you often overlook⨠The wellness practices that anchor Teresa through change (meditation, yoga, breathwork, journaling)Remember, life isnât a straight lineâitâs an upward spiral. When you learn to flow with it, every chapter fuels your next transformation.Want to connect with Teresa?đą Follow her on Instagram: @loveteresaherrera⨠Listen now to discover why your next chapter might just be your most powerful one.
234: Build a Gate, Not a Wall: How to Keep the Wrong People Out and Let the Right Ones In
12:17|The walls you built to protect your heart? They might be the very same walls keeping love out.What if the âred flag scanning,â second-guessing, and pulling away you call self-protection are actually signs that your past wounds are still making your choices for you?This week on Project Loving Myself, Iâm revealing why real safety in love isnât about hiding behind wallsâitâs about discernment. And how healing shifts you from choosing out of fear⌠to choosing from your worth.đ Ready to break the cycle? Join the Reconnection Inner Child Healing workshop on October 11 to uncover the patterns you didnât even realize were running your life. Register here.đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Explore:⨠The difference between walls that isolate you and gates that protect you⨠Why pain often feels familiarâand why thatâs dangerous in love⨠How healing shifts your choices from fear-based to aligned and empowered⨠The secret to knowing whoâs safe to let inâand who isnâtShare this with someone whoâs tired of choosing pain and ready to choose better.đą Tag me @sanaiyahgurnamal + @projectlovingmyselfpodcast with your biggest aha moment.Because love isnât about letting everyone inâitâs about trusting yourself to choose whoâs worth opening the gate for. â¨
233: Hidden Dream Killers: Whatâs Stopping You from the Life You Want with Anushree Kini
40:06|What if your dreams didnât disappearâthey just got buried under guilt, responsibilities, and all the ways life told you to play small?This week on Project Loving Myself, weâre exposing the hidden dream killers that quietly steal your visionâand showing you how to bring your dreams back to life. Joining me is transformational coach Anushree Kini, a Mindvalley Certified Life Coach and Marisa Peer Certified Rapid Transformational Coach, who helps women use visualization to shift their identify, dissolve guilt, and step into the lives they were meant for. Translation: she guides you to become the woman your future keeps calling you to be.đĄ In This Episode, Youâll Learn:⨠Why your dreams get buried under to-do listsâand how to gently reclaim them⨠The hidden role of guilt and social conditioning (and how to finally release both)⨠How visualization rewires your identityânot just your mindset⨠Small boundaries and micro-actions that create real visible change⨠A client story that proves inner shifts ripple outward into career, love, and self-worthBecause your dreams arenât gone. Theyâre waiting for you to stop letting life kill themâand finally choose to bring them back to life.Want to go deeper with Anushree?đ§ Free 15-minute Ultimate Future Self Activationhttps://drive.google.com/file/d/15sGIzg5VmTNNurhwNCmnxHiqGDhomx_s/view?usp=sharingđą Follow Anu on Instagram: @projectdailymagicâď¸ Connect with Anu: projectdailymagic@gmail.comđ https://www.instagram.com/projectdailymagic/Because your future is built from the inside out. Start seeing her, then start being her. â¨