Privileged Dating

On this very popular dating show, we meet our new friend of the show, Kat, and discuss the types of men we have met on dating apps so far and talk about our experiences with them.

Ann and Crystal give some updates on their dates, talk about how the League sucks, and talk about some of the men they have met so far. 

Ann helps Crystal better understand why she should be her quirky self - she was more comfortable after she was "friend zoned". The ladies actually agree on something: men being emotionally vulnerable is lovely. They also discuss some of the assumptions that they have found people make about them.

Ann tells Crystal what makes a her a "masculine woman" and they discuss specific traits that Ann has noticed about Crystal that make her appear to Ann as less feminine or masculine. They discuss decision-making in their relationships; in other words, who makes the decisions and how much input a partner should have.  

Crystal and Ann go deeper into their dating backgrounds. They share more about past boyfriends and how those relationships were formative, their college years, and each of their experiences with love bombing. 

Ann and Crystal discuss what actually makes a good date - what makes you want to continue on after date one; how to be direct and end a date after one drink; how it would be useful to have a husband/man to help with changing a light bulb or repairing a car; and why it is a good idea to use an alternate phone number when exchanging digits online. 

Ann and Crystal discuss the topic of first dates, where to go, and how long the dates should last. Also, Ann insists Crystal should require the man to inititate conversations online and communicate clearly in advance where and when they will be meeting. Crystal admits she is put off about a guy sending a message to her celebrating a one week anniversary of texting online. 

Episode 2. Today we cover what gets our attention from a man's profile and what we view as red flags. We also question Ann's invitation to take a trip to London with a guy she met online, but hasn't met in person yet.   Discussion includes analysis of fish pictures and Ann's continued insistence on men wearing clothing in their online pics. Crystal says no to sarcasm and her "no" is a complete sentence.