Primas Pero Not Really

Is it just us, or did everyone forget to mention the massive identity crisis that comes with parenthood? In this episode, the Primas are getting raw and real about the "Parenting Transition"—that jarring shift from being a spontaneous individual to a 24/7 manager of a tiny human.We aren't talking about diapers or sleep schedules; we’re diving into the psychological toll of mourning your "pre-kid" self, the invisible mental load that keeps you up at night, and the awkward "friendship gap" that happens when your social circle isn't on the same page.In this conversation, the Primas open up about:Losing your sense of self after becoming a momKids growing up and becoming more independentFinding purpose again in a new chapter of lifeThe chaos of parenting, schedules, and daily responsibilitiesGenerational differences in parenting and communicationThis episode is honest, emotional, and relatable for anyone navigating change — whether it’s motherhood, co-parenting, or simply entering a new season of life.🎙️ Follow the show and share it with someone going through the same transition.🕒 TIMESTAMPS0:00 — Introduction: Life updates and the "Primas" catch-up4:15 — The Identity Crisis: Transitioning from "Individual" to "Parent"11:30 — The Grief of Your Former Self: Why it’s okay to miss your old life18:45 — Navigating the "Friendship Gap": When your social circle changes27:10 — The Invisible Mental Load: Understanding the 24/7 "Manager" role35:50 — Social Media vs. Reality: Debunking "Aesthetic Parenting"44:20 — Relationship Strains: Keeping the spark alive amidst the chaos52:15 — Reclaiming Your Personal Identity: Finding "You" again

Real life doesn’t follow a script…and neither do these conversations.In this special compilation of Primas Pero Not Really, we bring together the most powerful, funny, and honest moments from Episodes 5 to 8. From co-parenting challenges and putting ego aside for your kids, to dating, relationships, and the everyday chaos of motherhood, this episode captures what real life actually looks like.We talk about:▪︎ Co-parenting dynamics and finding balance▪︎ Fun dad vs strict mom struggles▪︎ Blended families, forgiveness, and growth▪︎ Dating, relationships, and modern expectations▪︎ Humor, culture, and unfiltered life moments🎥 Watch now and catch the best moments from Season 1.💬 Comment your favorite clip or moment.📌 Subscribe for more real conversations, culture, and chaos.-=============================This episode BROUGHT TO YOU BY: 🎪*THE FAIR* : https://www.fairexpo.com/=============================

Dating, divorce, relationships, co-parenting, and real-life Latina conversations, this episode brings together the best moments from Episodes 1–4 of Primas Pero Not Really.From rushed engagements and bad proposals to healing after divorce, dating struggles, boundaries, and cultural moments that hit close to home, Las Primas keep it honest, unfiltered, and relatable.This is a mix of humor, hard truths, and the kind of conversations most people don’t say out loud — but everyone understands.💬 Comment your favorite clip or moment.📌 Subscribe for more real conversations, culture, and chaos.-=============================This episode BROUGHT TO YOU BY: 🎪*THE FAIR* : https://www.fairexpo.com/=============================👯‍♀️ *Primas…Pero Not Really**Chapters*00:00 – Introduction: Best of Primas03:30 – The Worst Proposal Stories 😂06:30 – Holding On Too Long in Relationships09:30 – What Divorce Really Teaches You12:30 – Independence, Boundaries & Growth15:30 – Abuela Sayings & Cultural Moments18:30 – Dating After Divorce: Red Flags 🚩21:30 – The “Dating Checklist” Is Real24:30 – Co-Parenting & Parenting Styles27:30 – Why Dating Gets Complicated30:00 – Final Thoughts & Real Talk Outro

If you’ve ever heard your kids say something and thought, “Should I be concerned… or is that just slang?” — this episode is for you.In this Season 1 finale of Primas Pero Not Really, we reflect on the podcast's unexpected impact, the feedback that truly moved us, and how sharing our stories has changed our relationships — especially with our kids.From daughters of divorced moms saying “okay, so my mom wasn’t crazy” to real conversations about co-parenting, healing, and growth… this season hit deeper than we expected.We test Yvette on Gen Z acronyms (IJS, AMA, LMAO… and more), unpack Latino sayings that may or may not make sense anymore, and fully embrace the fact that we are, in fact, “from the 1900s.”This episode blends:Motherhood and generational gapsHealing after divorceCo-parenting winsLatina abuela wisdomGen Z slang confusionAnd a lot of unfiltered laughterSeason 1 has been therapy, perspective, and communityLas Primas 💋

In this episode, the Primas unpack Valentine’s Day, traditions, pressure, self-love, and intimacy — and how the holiday changes as you grow.From solo dates and Galentine’s to social media comparisons and “required” romance, Ayeisha, Genise, and Yvette reflect on what still feels meaningful — and what feels performative.They also touch on intimacy and why a calendar shouldn’t dictate sexy time.Whether you love Valentine’s Day or roll your eyes at it, this conversation explores what it looks like to rewrite the holiday on your own terms.This episode blends humor, vulnerability, and unfiltered Latina storytelling. 💬 Tell us in the comments: Do you celebrate Valentine’s Day? Or are you rewriting this Holiday?#PrimasPeroNotReally #ValentinesDayTalk #LatinaPodcast #GirlTalkPodcast

Co-parenting isn’t easy. In Episode 6, the Primas talk about co-parenting challenges, parenting styles, kids’ activities, and the mental load that comes with raising kids across households.From juggling calendars and kids’ activities to navigating different parenting styles, discipline, and egos across households, the Primas unpack why co-parenting often feels harder than expected. They talk about the pressure of carrying the mental load, the tension between being the “fun” parent and the “strict” one, and why kids need structure more than friendship.This episode is honest, familiar, and deeply relatable for anyone co-parenting, single parenting, or raising kids within a blended family. No perfect answers — just real stories, shared experiences, and the reassurance that you’re not imagining how hard this can be.Real stories. Real chaos. No sugarcoating.👯‍♀️ *Primas…Pero Not Really*📱Follow https://www.instagram.com/primasperonotreally/

In Episode 4, the Primas dive into the wild, messy, and often unbelievable world of modern dating. From dating apps and red flags to first-date disasters and hard boundaries, Ayeisha, Genise, and Yvette share unfiltered stories and real opinions about what dating actually looks like right now.They rank dating apps, unpack their worst experiences, and talk honestly about what they will — and won’t — tolerate anymore. From “it’s complicated” situations to mismatched expectations, single-parent realities, and protecting your peace, this episode blends humor, truth, and hard-earned perspective.In this episode, the Primas discuss:The dating apps worth trying (and which ones aren’t)Red flags people ignore — until it’s too lateWorst date stories you can’t make upDating as a single mom and setting clear boundariesWhy peace matters more than potentialThe tools women are using today to date smarter and saferWhether you’re actively dating, taking a break, or just listening for the tea, this episode is honest, relatable, and full of laughs — with plenty of “been there” moments along the way.

In Episode 3, Ayeisha, Genise, and Yvette dive into one of the most meaningful—and chaotic—topics for Latina moms: the holidays. From Christmas traditions and Nochebuena to co-parenting logistics, evolving family routines, Elf on the Shelf fails, and Whoville-level décor, the Primas explore how celebrations shift as life changes.This episode is warm, honest, and genuinely funny—perfect for anyone trying to create holiday magic while juggling kids, culture, expectations, and new normals.In this conversation, the Primas share:• Their best and worst Christmas moments• How holiday traditions evolve as kids grow• Ways to create new traditions after major life changes• Co-parenting tips for navigating the season• Elf on the Shelf hacks, fails, and survival strategies• Cultural touches like Nochebuena and Reyes MagosWhether you're celebrating with a full house, splitting holidays across two homes, or starting fresh with a blank canvas, Episode 3 is a reminder that the holidays don’t have to look perfect—just meaningful.Tune in for culture, chaos, laughter, and real-life moments from three Latina women figuring it out as they go.