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Lessons Learned - A Month in Review

Season 3, Ep. 8

There's an old saying that comes to mind - "Do as I say, not as I do." While some people consider it one of the worst sayings, telling others to stop perpetuating bad habits while continuing on them yourself, I think it brings an amazing opener to honest reflection. It's less an avoidance of bad behavior, but more "I know I'm not doing the best right now, and I can certainly be doing better, but I hope this will help you avoid living the same way I have." As such, I hope you'll keep that saying in mind as I do my own deep dive into my past month being away from the wondrous world of Live Streaming. Where I've succeeded, where I've fallen, and more importantly, where I want to go from here - and I hope you'll be able to use my conversation with both myself and you to have a similar one with yourself. I'd love to hear how that journey of yours is going.


Send your questions, comments, and requests for Plumes' Pearls of Wisdom over to PlumesCast@gmail.com, or find Seth on other social medias such as BlueSky, Twitter, Tumblr, YouTube, Twitch, and more as PhantasmaPlumes!

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