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Episode 177 - Victim Blaming (Part 1)

Ep. 177

 In this episode, Annie discusses the painful reality of victim blaming and how it has affected her life. From being molested as a child, bullied at school, assaulted as a teen and trafficked as a young woman, Annie knows firsthand the fear and shame that keep victims silent. She explores how victim blaming manifests, making survivors feel at fault and preventing them from seeking help. Annie also addresses the role society plays in passing judgment and uses the story of the woman caught in adultery as a powerful biblical example of victim blaming. Tune in today and be sure to share it with a friend!


Learn more about Annie’s journey to freedom from victimization in her book, Fallen, at hookersforjesus.net/fallen

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