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Path To Excellence Podcast

How To Get What You Want Out Of A Relationship

Ep. 5

Introduction:

In this episode of the Path to Excellence podcast, the hosts, Zac, Jeff and Anthony, discuss how to improve relationships with girlfriends, wives, or anyone of interest. They share their own experiences and offer advice on expressing needs, adapting to partners' needs, and taking ownership of one's actions and emotions. The hosts stress the importance of setting high standards, being honest about weaknesses, and constantly striving to improve oneself. They also emphasize the importance of mindset, happiness, and building strong communities for personal growth and the betterment of society. The hosts encourage listeners to take action and make a positive impact in their own lives and the lives of others.stability, and support among men.



Takeaways:

  • During the podcast, the speakers emphasize the following takeaways:
  • Know yourself: Understand yourself before seeking fulfillment in relationships.
  • Set high standards: Expectations and standards contribute to relationship improvement.
  • Support growth: Encourage personal development within the relationship.
  • Work on yourself: Focus on personal growth to be a better partner.
  • Learn from mistakes: Trial and error helps in becoming a good partner.
  • Handle emotions: Address immature emotions and channel motivation effectively.
  • Seek successful examples: Learn from successful relationship archetypes.
  • Take responsibility: Focus on self-improvement and avoid blaming others.
  • Building a community of excellence: Encouraging the creation of a community of like-minded individuals who inspire each other and provide a strong foundation for future generations.


Conclusion:

In conclusion, this podcast provides valuable insights into how to get what you want from your relationships. By exploring topics such as self-awareness, setting high standards, supporting growth, and working on oneself, the hosts emphasize the importance of personal development and accountability in building fulfilling connections. They highlight the significance of learning from mistakes, addressing emotions maturely, and seeking inspiration from successful relationship archetypes. The podcast encourages listeners to take ownership of their lives, focus on self-improvement, and refrain from blaming others. By embracing these principles, individuals can cultivate stronger and healthier relationships, leading to greater happiness and fulfillment in their personal lives. Overall, the podcast serves as a guide for individuals seeking to enhance their relationships and embark on a path of continuous growth and excellence.


Links and Mentions:


Join the Fraternity of Excellence https://fraternityofexcellence.com/

Join our Free Facebook Group Path to Excellence


Follow Jeff Higgins:

Instagram @jeffhig Twitter @JeffreyHiggins

Follow Anthony Migliorino:

Instagram and Twitter: @peacefulfathers

Follow Zac Small

Instagram and Twitter: @zacsmall_ 


Join us at The Mission of Excellence in Charlotte on October 14th. https://www.missionofexcellence.com/


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