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PSP 387: How to Address Picking and Pulling Behaviors with Aneela Idnani

It is not uncommon for kids with anxiety or OCD to also have issues with picking their skin or pulling their hair. These behaviors are classified as BFRBs, body-focused, repetitive behaviors. Although BFRBs are a common comorbid condition to anxiety and OCD, it is a separate disorder with its own set of therapy approaches. In this week’s AT Parenting Survival Podcast, we celebrate BFRB week by having one of my favorite people on, Aneela Idnani from Habitaware. Aneela has struggled with trichotillomania her whole life. She took her pain and turned it into purpose; helping other people with BFRBs. She created a bracelet that helps people with BFRBs become more aware of when they are doing those behaviors. She also built a beautiful community filled with free support groups for kids and teens as well as services to support parents.


Resources:

Habitaware

Free BFRB kid support group Free BFRB teen support group

Parent Huddle Series

The BFRB Change Collective

BFRB Changemakers

Pickingme.org

The TLC Foundation


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This podcast episode is sponsored by NOCD. NOCD provides online OCD therapy in the US, UK, Australia and Canada. To schedule your free 15 minute consultation to see if NOCD is a right fit for you and your child, go to: https://go.treatmyocd.com/at_parenting


This podcast is for informational purposes only and should not be used to replace the guidance of a qualified professional.


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Online classes for parents raising kids with anxiety and OCD: https://atparentingsurvivalschool.com

Join the AT Parenting Community (A membership designed to support parents raising kids with anxiety or OCD): https://atparentingcommunity.com

Take one of my FREE webinars: www.Natashadaniels.com/webinars

Check out my books: www.Natashadaniels.com/books


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http://www.facebook.com/ATparentingSurvival 

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