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Pain In The Arts
[BONUS] Backstage Banter Ep 1: Mulch Mountains & Cat Trap Capers
We’re currently away camping, so we’re opening the vault to give you a sneak peek of our bonus feed. Backstage Banter is where we keep the raw conversations usually reserved for our members.
This first episode covers Brea's 5-cubic-meter 'mulch mountain' driveway fiasco, a coffee-ordering saga that makes me sound like a total Boomer, and the day a ranger showed up to reclaim a cat trap while I was out of town. We also touch on some Grand Final heartbreak and a poorly timed birthday migraine.
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This episode was originally aired as a Patreon Exclusive on 15/11/2025
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