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Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

First Listener Question!

Season 1, Ep. 35

We're kicking this late episode off with a long talk about Magic: the Gathering and parenting! So, buckle up for that! Then we have our first listener question read anonymously! This is what else we tackle:


  • Every time my wife (43f) gets home after a few days away, leaving me (42m) to look after the kids, she has a go at me. Why?
  • My 30M coworker 50F keeps commenting on my eating habits and saying I love food. How should I approach her to tell her to stop?
  • My vegan partner (24m) doesn’t want me (24f) cooking pork/beef when he’s home. What do i do?


Socials: @ourrelationshippod on IG, Ify is @ifynwadiwe on Twitter and IG, Emmy is @ohmyemilylouise on IG 


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