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Our Relationship Pod w/ Emmy and Ify

Are We Dating the Same Guy? (Positive)

Season 1, Ep. 67

Back from Australia and back into your ears! It's time for more mess!


We're hopping into:

  • Email about a heart that still wants.
  • I (28f) commented on a post of my boyfriend (29m) on a "are we dating the same guy" page and he found out. What are my next steps?
  • My (37f) Husband (38m) was fired for sexual harassment
  • Boyfriend (29M) keeps accidentally hurting me (28F) and I’m scared it will happen again


Thanks for listening!


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