One Dive at a Time

In this combined episode, Rob takes listeners below the surface of Blue Lake — a geothermal spring straddling the Utah–Nevada desert — to explore a deeper metaphor for life. Once navigated freely by instinct, the lake is now filled with guideline ropes connecting every attraction. While they make diving easier, they also limit exploration — a powerful reflection of how people often live their lives following predictable paths.Through vivid storytelling and personal reflection, Rob shares how stepping “offline” in diving — and in life — can help you rediscover freedom, curiosity, and trust in your own navigation.

Rob shares practical coaching strategies to help you recognize your wins, interrupt self-critical thought patterns, and build consistent habits that support self-trust.Call to Action: If you’re struggling to rebuild your confidence or self-esteem after a tough season, reach out for coaching at www.StandSureCoaching.com. Together, we’ll build the mindset, routines, and tools that help you stand sure in who you are.

Over the past year, I noticed something shift. Friends I once counted on stopped showing up. Invitations went unanswered, and I found myself diving alone more often than not. At first, it stung—realizing that connections I thought were solid had faded. But in that silence, I discovered something powerful: quiet confidence. It wasn’t about proving anything to anyone else. It was about standing firm in who I am, even when the crowd got smaller.That discovery made me realize just how critical quiet confidence is for veterans.Why Quiet Confidence Matters for VeteransDepression and Self-Worth: When you leave the service, the structure, validation, and sense of mission disappear almost overnight. Depression feeds on that emptiness. Quiet confidence pushes back by reminding you that your value doesn’t end with your uniform.Isolation vs. Connection: Many veterans feel their social circles shrink, and loneliness creeps in. Building confidence allows you to accept that loss without being defined by it—and opens the door to more authentic, reciprocal relationships.Resilience: Quiet confidence equips you to face hard days with inner strength. It’s a tool that grounds you and keeps you moving forward, no matter what’s happening around you.Three Hacks for Building Quiet ConfidenceStart Small – Embrace little acts of individuality: say what you really think, wear what feels like you. These small moves grow into a strong foundation.Choose Your Circle Wisely – Surround yourself with people who celebrate your authenticity and give back as much as they take.Work With a Coach – Coaching provides a safe space to identify your strengths and build a confidence that directly combats the effects of depression.Takeaway Quiet confidence doesn’t shout. It whispers strength. For veterans struggling with depression, it’s a lifeline—a way to rebuild trust in yourself, reclaim purpose, and walk forward with resilience.

Life has a way of opening doors you never even knocked on. The real question is whether you’re ready to walk through them when they appear. Opportunities often come disguised as challenges or surprises, but with the right mindset, you can recognize them and act with confidence.Here are three life hacks to help you stay prepared:First, practice daily reflection—take five minutes each evening to ask yourself what went well, what challenged you, and what surprised you. Second, surround yourself with the right voices—spend time with people who encourage growth and possibility, not those who hold you back. Third, set micro-goals—break big ambitions into small, achievable steps that build momentum.When you live this way, the doors that open unexpectedly won’t feel intimidating. They’ll feel like the next natural step forward.

Recap of our trip to Wendover Utah!

In this episode of One Dive at a Time, we dive into the power of progress. Too often, divers get caught up in speed—how quickly they can master buoyancy, nail a mask clear, or move on to advanced dives. But the truth is this: it doesn’t matter how slowly you go, as long as you don’t stop.I’ll share three key tips for building lasting dive skills:Consistency over intensity – small, regular practice beats one big push.Micro-wins matter – celebrate the small victories that add up to mastery.Patience with your pace – your journey is yours, and persistence always pays off.Listen in as I share real examples of divers who grew their confidence and abilities not by rushing, but by steadily showing up. Progress isn’t about perfection—it’s about momentum, built one dive at a time.

We need your help to get this funded! https://www.facebook.com/share/14HNKe7RzPH/ https://www.standsurecoaching.com/foundationIn this episode, we share exciting progress on the Cordy Gaeta Rice Coaching Scholarship and what lies ahead. Our startup fundraiser is officially underway with a goal of $10,000, and thanks to your generosity, we’re already one-tenth of the way there. Every dollar raised goes directly to securing ICF-affiliated professional coaches—the gold standard in coaching—for veterans.We discuss why having the right coach matters, what sets ICF-certified coaches apart, and how this scholarship ensures veterans are matched with coaches who uphold high standards, ethics, and accountability. You’ll also hear about the application process we’re building for veterans, the rigorous requirements for coaches, and why we’re determined to keep this program strong from the very start.This scholarship honors Cordy’s legacy of compassion, strength, and friendship—carrying forward his example of being there for others.👉 How you can help:Share this initiative with your networkSupport the fundraiser and spread the wordBe part of changing a veteran’s life through coachingTogether, we can make sure veterans have access to the coaching they need to thrive.#CoachingForVeterans #CordyGaetaRiceScholarship #HealingThroughCoachingThe Cordy Gaeta Rice Scholarship honors Cordy’s legacy by providing free, certified professional coaching for veterans living with PTSD. Through a partnership between the Stand Sure Foundation and Neptune Warrior, this nationwide initiative removes barriers and creates a forward-focused path for veterans to build confidence, manage stress, and rediscover purpose beyond the uniform. 100% of donations go directly to coaching sessions, ensuring every contribution makes an immediate impact.https://www.standsurecoaching.com/foundation