There Are No Tangents

Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! This week’s episode features the “deep” part of our “Would You Rather” game. These stumped us a bit more than last week's "weird" questions.“Deep” Would You Rather questions from gohen.com01:04 Diving right into the questions again01:17 Would you rather not be able to taste or not be able to see colors?01:54 Would you rather know how you die or know when you die?04:55 Would you rather the ability to change the past or see into the future?05:14 Would you rather be magical but live on earth or live in a magical land but be normal?07:50 Would you rather find your passion or the love of your life?10:45 Would you rather have an intelligent partner or a good-looking partner?13:14 Would you rather be able to fly or be able to turn invisible?14:08 Would you rather be stuck on an island for eternity all on your own or with someone you hate?22:20 17:45 Ta da! “Some of those deeper ones…that’s our schtick.”18:40 Once again, please share your answers. Click *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes!Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.

Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! Do you think in images? Do you ever have a difficult time articulating what those images look like or how you sense them, and what role does the heart center play? We tackle these concepts and more in today’s episode.01:42 Greetings and shoutout to our friend Josh03:00 Our brains have been abuzz with topics including thinking in images (How do we language this topic?) and do we think in discrete steps as Enneagram 6s?08:15 Do you think or process in images? Does everyone do that? 08:45 Lisa doesn’t hear a story without imagining it, which is both cool and hard10:00 The head center is about how we see and is this type of thing more prominent for head types?11:20 Human Design cognition (Lisa - inner vision; Emma - touch)15:00 Language and how the centers of intelligence communicate with sounds17:45 Language as problematic when the images derive from the heart center?19:54 Are some things just more difficult to articulate or is it because language isn’t a suitable substitute for the other centers that are wanting to speak their own language?21:25 Heart images feel much deeper than what language can necessarily convey23:50 “I can see it but I can’t communicate it”25:30 Listening with the head vs. listening with the heart30:35 Mismatch between speech and body language 31:33 How did we get here?!32:00 Future workshop collab?34:18 We can’t be amazing at everything or people would hate us. Facts.35:30 Even when you lose the language, the image and felt sense can still be present36:25 Listeners, answer our question of the day: Do you think in images?Click *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes!Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.

Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! Buckle up…a surprise to exactly no one, we are diving right into a variety of topics including lucid dreaming, the concept of personal space, introversion and social dominance, punctuated by some giggles.01:22 Starting off with a bang03:05 Our mornings started off in tandem with lucid dreams08:30 What is lucid dreaming?13:35 Lisa researched interpretations of snake dreams13:55 Lisa wants to understand symbolic dream interpretations compared to scientific data on dreams15:35 Symbolism in the context of your life 17:57 Does dream interpretation match up with scientific research on dreaming?19:17 Anecdotes on introversion and personal space (city life vs. suburban life)22:35 Expectations of being neighborly 24:50 “I’m not being rude. I just don’t want to talk.”28:20 “What other people think about you is really none of your business.”29:05 Lisa muses incoherently on the concept of space: How much do we need? Is space a construct? Can we create our own bubble?29:57 Boundaries, the social instinct, and holding space 32:40 Neighborhood living as a social experiment34:10 Share your dreams with us35:00 Wrap-upClick *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes!Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.

Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! We're baaaaack. :) In this episode we explore the beauty of flow states, read some poetry, discuss "word of the year", and more. We also receive an update on how Lisa is acclimating to her new home. Questions for our listeners: How do you experience flow states? What does your intuition sound or feel like? Do you hate spiders (you'll see what we mean...)? If you're watching on YouTube, leave us a like/comment, and if you're listening on the podcast consider leaving us a rating and review. Much love!0:00 Intro1:12 "You are a sight for sore eyes"2:35 Update on Lisa's move to Asheville4:34 Emma's horrifying encounter with a spider8:30 Do you follow us on Instagram?10:00 Morning reflections and a poem16:45 Being in a state of flow22:00 What does it feel like to be in flow?27:00 Emma's word of the year29:24 L makes connections with E's Enneagram group35:05 Following intuition40:28 Do women have a stronger intuition than men...?46:43 Understanding intuition through an Enneagram lens51:15 Getting in the No Tangents zone51:45 Will anyone buy our merch?53:40 Brief trip to the saucy gutter55:10 Expressing our adoration for one another Click *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes!Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.

Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! Just a couple of 6w7s fully embodying our s*xual appeal as we explore the concepts of attraction and first impressions. How strong are first impressions for you? If you're enjoying our episodes, please subscribe on YouTube and wherever you listen to your podcasts. A rate and review would be greatly appreciated as well! Sending you much love. 0:00 Intro1:25 How are you? & E's Cash Money t-shirt3:35 Quick plug...shower us with love4:50 Our recent guest appearance on another pod6:07 S*xual appeal of Type 6; "can't nobody hold me down today"7:35 Lisa's identity shift; "just a couple of 6w7s..."9:25 Back to attraction 12:50 "I like to have something to push off of..."17:12 Energetic first impressions 22:48 Nuancing our differences to first impressions; "Yes" "Neutral" & "No"24:25 Lisa provides an example of a "hard no"28:00 When people switch between "yes" "neutral" and "no"31:48 Comparing our 6ness and trifix38:20 Sunk cost fallacy39:45 6s looking for evidence to justify their opinions about people44:20 Does irritation lead to relationships "completing their cycle"?48:40 "I'd like to tap that...topic" ;)49:35 Our pod is going to take a short break due to LVH's move50:30 What topics would you like to hear us chat about? Let us know!Click *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes!Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.

*Be sure to check out the other half of our interview with Marika*Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! Joining us for this episode is our guest Marika Litz, who helps us explore the gifts of the Enneagram as a self-awareness tool, the centers of intelligence, the angst of Enneagram 6s, and much more.01:30 Diving right into Enneagram talk / Lisa’s official Enneagrammer typing05:15 Marika’s Enneagram type and reevaluation06:50 Oh - welcome to our awesome guest Marika Litz07:15 How Emma and Marika met08:55 Marika’s background11:40 Marika’s Enneagram study journey and feeling a sense of belonging17:20 Why we are afraid of speaking up in groups and taking up space22:20 Lisa’s 7 wing and discussion about overlays24:25 Marika’s recap of and takeaways from the Enneagram School centers of intelligence class / Josh Lavine’s developmental model and object relations31:15 Full-on rejection mode and body center observation34:25 Enneagram 1s can’t numb themselves to an irritant35:20 The gifts of the Enneagram37:13 Lisa interjects with a question: What was Marika’s first impression of Emma?40:10 Marika’s family discussion about anxiety and innate sense of ungroundedness as Enneagram 6s42:56 Marika describes their sense of anxiety and preference for “angst” as a descriptor48:00 Overcoming the idea of “what is wrong with me?”49:00 “We are a part of the creating…”49:54 Feeling that the heart is untrustworthy and what happens when we experience identity shifts52:00 Does Lisa relate to any of this 6 stuff?58:00 The scrambling of the centers of intelligence01:02:10 The role of self-observation and when established Enneagram language doesn’t resonate01:07:13 The Enneagram and awareness of “what’s going on behind the curtain”01:08:48 Our ego is set up to protect us and appreciating when it performs its function01:11:35 Inner authority and state of feeling unsettled01:14:26 One of the gifts of the 601:15:25 The beauty (and traps) of the head center 01:21:13 Overlapping wisdom traditions on the three centers of intelligence01:23:09 Wrapping up the convoCheck out Marika's content on IG @enneagrampoint6Click *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes!Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.

*Be sure to check out the other half of our interview with Marika*Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! Joining us for this episode is our guest Marika Litz, who helps us explore the gifts of the Enneagram as a self-awareness tool, the centers of intelligence, the angst of Enneagram 6s, and much more.01:30 Diving right into Enneagram talk / Lisa’s official Enneagrammer typing05:15 Marika’s Enneagram type and reevaluation06:50 Oh - welcome to our awesome guest Marika Litz07:15 How Emma and Marika met08:55 Marika’s background11:40 Marika’s Enneagram study journey and feeling a sense of belonging17:20 Why we are afraid of speaking up in groups and taking up space22:20 Lisa’s 7 wing and discussion about overlays24:25 Marika’s recap of and takeaways from the Enneagram School centers of intelligence class / Josh Lavine’s developmental model and object relations31:15 Full-on rejection mode and body center observation34:25 Enneagram 1s can’t numb themselves to an irritant35:20 The gifts of the Enneagram37:13 Lisa interjects with a question: What was Marika’s first impression of Emma?40:10 Marika’s family discussion about anxiety and innate sense of ungroundedness as Enneagram 6s42:56 Marika describes their sense of anxiety and preference for “angst” as a descriptor48:00 Overcoming the idea of “what is wrong with me?”49:00 “We are a part of the creating…”49:54 Feeling that the heart is untrustworthy and what happens when we experience identity shifts52:00 Does Lisa relate to any of this 6 stuff?58:00 The scrambling of the centers of intelligence01:02:10 The role of self-observation and when established Enneagram language doesn’t resonate01:07:13 The Enneagram and awareness of “what’s going on behind the curtain”01:08:48 Our ego is set up to protect us and appreciating when it performs its function01:11:35 Inner authority and state of feeling unsettled01:14:26 One of the gifts of the 601:15:25 The beauty (and traps) of the head center 01:21:13 Overlapping wisdom traditions on the three centers of intelligence01:23:09 Wrapping up the convoCheck out Marika's content on IG @enneagrampoint6Click *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes!Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.

Thanks for joining us for today's tangents! Do you believe in soulmates? How do you process grief? How do you see yourself and how do others see you? Can astrology help us make sense of anything? These are a few of the concepts we explore in this beefy episode. It is with open and tender hearts that we humbly submit this conversation to you. If you enjoy it, we'd love for you to leave us a like, comment, or hit us up on Insta  @notangents . Finally, if you're enjoying our episodes, please subscribe on YouTube and wherever you listen to your podcasts. Sending you much love. P.S. In this episode we explore Lisa's typing video submission. She has since received her typing results (!!!) and we have a juicy convo coming out in our next episode with our friend and special guest, Marika. Definitely stay tuned!0:00 Intro1:20 Starting off crying...again. Plus, human design references.4:00 Grief keeps slapping Emma5:00 Diving into soulmate discussion7:40 "I feel like you're one of my soulmates." More tears.9:45 Image of the heart rehydrating11:00 "We're not using this video." Plot twist...we used it.12:15 What are soulmates? Are they real?13:40 Time "feels like it doesn't exist" with certain people18:10 Feeling a magnetic pull toward certain people 21:10 Lisa's Enneagrammer typing video21:50 People can't get enough of our chemistry ;)23:20 Is Lisa a narcissist? Is Emma a narcissist for Lisa?24:15 Answering the "what are/were your greatest life goals?" question28:30 How do we react when we're put on the spot to share about ourselves?29:20 Answering the "what are your best and worst qualities?" question31:40 Not wanting to be pinned down & why we respond this way33:10 What typing questions were the hardest to answer?36:50 Are we both clouds? Let's move into astrology...41:00 Discussing our sun, moon, and rising signs. Linking to different elements47:35 Plea for more experts48:00 We took y'all on a ride today49:00 Who cried more?50:00 Lisa is highly competent & Emma has blind trust51:20 Lisa edifies Emma and she's able to receive it.52:30 Taking our listeners on a pleasure cruise.Click *subscribe* so you don't miss out on future episodes! Connect with us on Instagram @NoTangents or visit our site at https://notangents.my.canva.site/Contact Lisa: localcolorbranding.com or @localcolorbranding on InstagramContact Emma: emmascottcoaching.com or @theenneagramconnection on InstagramShoot us an email! therearenotangents@gmail.com.