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Tax and the City

Ep. 228

Beatrice may be able to do her own taxes, but don't ask her where her drivers' license is… Living in the US is just a steep non-stop learning curve.


Things we mention include Turbo Tax, the fact that some states in the US have no state income tax (in case you're considering moving here, the land of the free – ahem – some time soon and want to narrow down the list of ideal places to live), the recent shooting incident in a Fort Wayne cafe, and Invincible, the Amazon Prime show Beatrice is (kind of?!) watching with Beau.


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