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Not Without My Sister
86 – On Stalkers (and Stalking)
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Who knew we had so much experience to share about the act of stalking – whether in the role of victim or in the role of perpetrator (clearly Rosemary)?!
Please let us know if you've had any uncomfortably relentless would-be wooers following you from place to place, and whether you've indulged in a bit of social media stalking (and if that even counts?! or is it de rigueur when you're dating someone?!) Let us know!
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Not Without My Sister is presented by Beatrice and Rosemary Mac Cabe in Fort Wayne, Indiana. Liam Geraghty is our producer. Sound and original music by Don Kirkland. Original illustration by Lindsay Neilson. Not Without My Sister is a member of The Warren, the home of great Irish podcasts.
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