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Not a Perfect Parent: The extraordinary wisdom of ordinary parents

'At the time I didn't give myself credit... now I don't know how I did it.'

Season 2, Ep. 13

Meet Sandra, mum to 5 and grandmother to one.


Sandra talks about the joys and logistics of raising a bigger family and how it feels to be on the other side of it all as you watch your adult children become friends and parents themselves... oh and becoming an influencer in your 60s!


Find Sandra @homesweetholmedale


TW: Please be aware that part of Sandra's story is the loss of her daughter Alice. If you feel that you will find Alice and Sandra's story difficult to hear, you may choose not to listen to this episode.


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