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no pretense 001: Abandonment Ft. Mikey (Black Millennial Marriage Podcast)

Season 1, Ep. 1

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In this inaugural episode, your host Jason Vives talks experiences of abandonment with 1/2 of the Black Millennial Marriage Podcast--Mikey Chapman.


Together, the two bros discuss the trauma, sadness, and anger involved in not having their fathers present in their lives and how this abandonment has affected how they parent and show up as men.


Tune in for this heartfelt conversation you're sure to enjoy.


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Guest: Mikey Chapman, Podcast: Black Millennial Marriage Podcast


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Instagram: @nopretensepodcast


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nopretensepodcast@gmail.com


no pretense is hosted and produced by Jason Vives, co-host of the popular show:: The Cheat Code podcast.


Additional production and editing by Randie Chapman at Wordie Productions.









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