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Being a Mom Was Her Favorite Thing to Be | Road to Mother's Day: 11 Days Left
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In this diary entry, Gabri calls her dad to ask how her mom actually felt about Mother's Day. What he describes is someone who didn't care about the gifts or the plans. She just loved being together. She loved the role. She stood up without hesitation when the priest asked the moms to rise at church.
Gabri also talks about the contrast: how easy the day used to feel, and how heavy it is now. Not because Mother's Day changed. Just because she isn't here to experience it the way she used to.
11 days out. A new diary entry every day until Mother's Day.
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18. Grieving a Mom in a Country That Doesn't Talk About Grief
41:33||Season 2, Ep. 18Grief looks different depending on where in the world you are. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui sits down with Helen and Celine, two women from Germany, one now living in New Zealand, to talk about what losing a mom looks like across different cultures. They cover the shocking differences in bereavement leave, why some cultures are blunt about death while others avoid it entirely, what anticipatory grief feels like when you watch a parent fade from cancer, the guilt of grieving from another country, and grieving not just your mom but the version of yourself you were before she died. Above all, this episode is a reminder that talking about grief openly, even when it makes people uncomfortable, is one of the most healing things you can do. Share in the comments: how does your culture handle grief?
17. Do You Ever Really Move On After Losing Someone?
09:53||Season 2, Ep. 17For years, Gabri Segui believed you never really move on from grief, you just learn to move with it. Then a conversation with a friend at the gym challenged that thinking completely. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri explores the tension between moving on and moving with your grief, why "move on" is one of the most hated phrases grievers hear, and whether both perspectives can actually be true at the same time. She breaks down what moving on really means, why the phrase creates an invisible timeline that does not need to exist, and why having hard conversations with other grievers can shift your entire perspective. Whether you find comfort in moving on or you carry your person forward, this episode is for you. Share in the comments: does moving on or moving with resonate more with you?
16. The Real Reason You See Signs From Your Dead Loved Ones
17:54||Season 2, Ep. 16After losing someone, you start seeing them everywhere. A cardinal. A butterfly. A song on the radio at the exact moment you needed it. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui breaks down the actual brain chemistry behind why grievers see signs from their loved ones, from how your brain filters emotionally significant information to the grief psychology concept of continuing bonds. She shares her own sign from her mom, the stories her community shared in Grief Circle, and why the relationship with the person you lost does not end when they die, it just changes. Whether you see signs constantly or feel like you never get them, this episode will give you language for what you are experiencing. Share in the comments: what is your sign from your loved one, and when did you last see it?
15. Surviving The First Year Of Losing Your Mom (Q&A)
16:08||Season 2, Ep. 15When you lose someone, grief raises questions that nobody around you seems to know how to answer. In this episode of My Mom Died, Gabri Segui answers the second round of questions submitted by her community, including how to handle grief guilt, what to do when everyone expects you to be over it, whether you will ever forget the sound of your mom's voice, how to deal with a surviving parent who takes their grief out on you, what to do with a loved one's belongings, and how grief changes your relationship with the things they left behind. She also shares what her mom's last text said, and why she never responded. This is part two of the community Q&A series. Share in the comments: what grief question has never been answered for you?
14. Does the Pain of Losing a Mother Ever Go Away? (Q&A)
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12. How I Got Through the Worst Days of Grief
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