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good culture vs more money, I don't trust my boss! how to land a permanent contract + more

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Today's awesome community questions that we're answering touch on:


👉🏾 should I try to get a better offer and ask if my employer can match it?

👉🏿 should I change jobs for a bigger pay rise but lose a good team?

👉🏻 is it a good idea to apply for jobs to keep your interview skills up?

👉 how to ask your employer about going from contract to permanent 

👉🏼 how to chat to your employer about wanting to upskill and study for your career

👉🏽 what to do when you lose trust in your boss 


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  • 19. 819 from the vault: leadership lessons every manager needs

    31:52||Season 8, Ep. 19
    Management can be a hard gig! In this throwback episode from the vault, Shell and Shane Hatton unpack your questions about leadership, touching on:👉🏼 what's the first thing a new leader needs to learn?👉🏽 asking for better feedback from your team👉🏾 micro-managing👉🏿 you don't have to have all the answers👉🏻 support systems👉 learning and contributing👉🏼 hiring people better than youConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/Connect with Shane on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shanemhatton/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrr
  • 18. 818 hard truths, tough love: 8 things you need to hear for your career

    34:53||Season 8, Ep. 18
    In this episode of this is work, Shell's channelling some tough love that we all need to hear at least once.Drawing from real conversations and moments from Shells career, she shares eight hard truths for your career and leadership - from why embarrassment is actually a sign you're growing, to why discipline will always beat desire and why choosing comfort now almost always leads to pain later.Connect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
  • 17. 817 from the vault: how to stop people pleasing in leadership

    55:20||Season 8, Ep. 17
    Let's chat about one of the biggest killers for your career - people pleasing. In this throwback episode from the vault Shell is joined by Grace Murray, Vice President of Strategy at Fohr who shares how she's learned to overcome people pleasing as a leader.📒 Radical Candor by Kim Scott: https://amzn.to/3SP8wDEListen to Grace's career story 👇Listen on AppleListen on SpotifyConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrr
  • 16. 816 telling someone they lack self-awareness, dealing with defensiveness and what new leaders get wrong (ep816)

    39:18||Season 8, Ep. 16
    On this weeks episode of this is work, we cover some listener questions — and this week, they're spicy.Shell tackles some of the hardest conversations in leadership — with practical tools you can use straight away.In this episode we cover:How to tell someone they lack self-awarenessThe five types of defensiveness and how to handle each oneLeading people who are older or more experienced than youWorking for a boss you don't respectThe biggest mistake new leaders makeConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
  • 15. 815 from the vault: how to perform under pressure

    27:51||Season 8, Ep. 15
    In this episode of 'this is work' from the vault, Shell breaks down the seven strategies used by high performers to stay sharp when the stakes are high. Whether you're dealing with conflict avoidance, a fear of feedback or just feeling the weight of your own expectations, this episode's for you. Shell covers:👉 finding your edge - what elite performers do that most people avoid👉🏼 self-reflect to course correct - Ray Dalio's one-big-thing framework👉🏿 control the controllables - Stephen Covey's circles of control, influence & concern👉🏻practice under pressure - why relaxed practice doesn't prepare you for game day👉🏽 build a feedback board of advisers - not all feedback deserves your attention👉Jack Bauer energy - 24 hours to process a fail, then move on👉🏽 get clear on your why - your purpose as an anchor under pressureConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
  • 14. 814 how to build your personal brand without selling your soul

    39:07||Season 8, Ep. 14
    What do you think of when you hear "personal brand"? If you get the ick from those two words alone, then this episode is for you. Shell delivers a one-on-one workshop on building your personal brand, including a clear five-step framework for defining your brand on a page. Grab your notes app. This one's a working session.Connect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
  • 13. 813 from the vault: tackling common challenges in leadership

    20:50||Season 8, Ep. 13
    Leadership is not easy! In this episode from season 7, Shell unpacks some of the most common challenges that leaders face and how to navigate them. She touches on:👉 leading well even when you're exhausted👉🏼 building a sustainable high-performance culture👉🏿 making the jump from team member to team leader👉🏻 the difference between information sharing and true communication👉🏽 creating psychological safety for courageous conversations👉🏽 and why being “nice” isn’t always helpful in leadershipRelated episodes: 🎧 strategies for building wellbeing at work with Phil Wolffe - Listen on Apple | SpotifyConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrr
  • 12. 812 imposter syndrome as a strength, navigating unspoken conflict & leading well when you're new

    45:53||Season 8, Ep. 12
    Ever felt like a fraud at work? Good. In this episode of this is work, Shelley and Emily cover three big leadership topics — reframing imposter syndrome, dealing with unspoken conflict on your team, and how to nail your first 90 days as a new leader.In this episode:Why imposter syndrome is a green flag, not a red oneThe ODD framework for surfacing unspoken team conflictHow to use silence strategically in tough conversationsYour month by month 90 day leadership planConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.
  • 11. 811 weaponised incompetence: what to watch for, how to address it & when your competence gets used against you

    44:34||Season 8, Ep. 11
    In this week's episode of this is work, Shelley and Emily dive into weaponised incompetence in the workplace — everything from how to spot it and the exact words to use when addressing it, right through to what happens when it flips and your own competence gets used against you.In this episode we cover:What is weaponised incompetencePlaying to your strengths vs weaponising a weaknessScripts and one liners to address it with a colleagueThe flip side: when your competence gets weaponisedSigns your manager is using your competence against youCheck out Shelley's Sydney Morning Herald article on weaponised incompetence:https://www.smh.com.au/business/workplace/weaponised-incompetence-is-rife-at-work-here-s-how-to-shut-it-down-20260226-p5o5qf.htmlConnect with Shell on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/shelley-johnson/If you lead teams, check out Shelley’s business, Boldside: https://www.boldside.com.au/Shell & Glen’s book 'Sort Your Career Out & Make More Money' is available here: https://amzn.to/4k3YSrrWe hate email spam so we don’t create it! Sign up to our newsletter to get only the valuable money, careers and property info you need.To get help, and to check out our online courses, books, resources and downloads (+ our disclaimers and warnings), click here.