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MUMBELIEVABLE with Sonia Beldom

Esther Stanhope - I’m neurosparky thanks to my mum

Mumbelievable: Chaos, Confidence, and Creativity with Esther Stanhope

Join us in this exciting episode of the Mumbelievable podcast, where we dive deep into the influence of mums on our lives. Host Sonia chats with the wonderful Esther Stanhope, author and motivational speaker, about their unique and sometimes chaotic relationships with their neurodiverse and extroverted mothers. From funny anecdotes to profound realisations, listen in as they share how their mums shaped their confidence, creativity, and perspectives. A perfect blend of humour, heartwarming moments, and valuable insights into the impactful role of mothers. Don't miss Esther's inspiring journey and the launch of her new book, 'Visibly Brilliant'.


00:00 Introduction to the Podcast

00:46 Guest Introduction: Esther Stanhope

01:07 Esther's Relationship with Her Mom

02:28 Neurodiversity and Eccentric Mums

04:21 Extroverted Mums and their quirks

06:06 Esther's Mum: Background and Upbringing

08:22 Parenting Challenges and Childhood Memories

15:36 Embracing Neurodiversity and Personal Growth

18:31 Broadcasting and Professional Experiences

22:19 The Planner vs. The Improviser

22:44 Embracing Flexibility in Planning

23:08 The Art of Improvisation

23:37 Personal Reflections on Planning

26:18 Cooking and Organisation Hacks

27:25 Mother's Influence and Career Success

30:54 The Journey to Writing a Book

31:34 The Importance of Visibility in the Workplace

38:10 Cherishing Moments with Mum

41:01 Final Thoughts and Farewell

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