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Gaslighting is a Subtle Tactic, and Its Objective is to Stop Independent Thought

Season 4, Ep. 27

In this eye-opening episode of Moving Forward with Hope - Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, Lynn explores the insidious world of gaslighting. It’s a tactic used everywhere—sometimes intentionally, sometimes unknowingly—but its effects are profound. This subtle form of manipulation can erode your confidence, cloud your judgment, and slowly dismantle your independent thought.

Why do people gaslight? What do they gain? Lynn breaks it down, from the common phrases gaslighters use to the deeper psychological traps they set. Tune in to discover how gaslighting aims to keep you second-guessing your reality—and how you can protect yourself from falling into the trap.

Be prepared for a deep dive into the subtle and powerful ways gaslighting affects us all. Don't miss this crucial conversation!

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