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Strategies for Realistic Goals: Coaching Insights with Neal Conlon

Season 4, Ep. 10

In this episode, host Torund Bryhn sits down with the multifaceted Neal Conlon, a venture capitalist, branding expert, coach, and author. Together, they dive deep into the importance of setting realistic financial goals, understanding the "math problem" in personal aspirations, and harnessing the power of coaching for personal transformation. 


Neal shares his unique perspective on balancing momentum-driven ambitions with steadfast beliefs—drawing from his rich cultural heritage and diverse professional background. They explore the transactional nature of relationships, the significance of external witnesses in transformation, and the evolving definition of communities in the digital age. 

Whether you're rethinking your career path or seeking clarity in your personal goals, this episode offers invaluable insights into progress, mindset shifts, and the journey of self-discovery. 




Key Moments: 


00:10 Excited for opportunity, shared space, immigrant heritage.

04:01 Irish family, humorous family portrait.

10:36 Choosing who to be, privilege, warriors.

17:04 Financial progression and personal evolution despite setbacks.

20:23 Adapting to change, evolving, and self-awareness.

24:33 Kindle trend faded, books came back. Adapt or be left behind in tech.

26:15 Fast food industry's impact on labor summarized.

33:06 Finding a community can be like shopping.

36:49 Importance of energetic contracts in human relationships.

40:28 Rediscovering childlike wonder through a coach's guidance.

42:29 Coaching requires vulnerability, clarity, and support.

47:08 Friend wants to make $250,000, works 20 hours.

53:45 Business and life strategist emphasizes coaching success.


About the guest : 


Neal Conlon is an unapologetic optimist who helps executives, sales leaders, marketers, and founders achieve their goals and grow their businesses. He has over 15 years of experience in sales, marketing, and leadership roles, working with early-stage, well-funded, and publicly traded companies across various industries.



Neal's mission is to enhance, empower, and create spaces for growth and change for leaders. With deep roots in technology, software, hardware, and services based businesses. He also serves as a board member and a fractional chief revenue officer to several startups, providing strategic guidance and support. Neal is a veteran, a father, an optimist, and a master connector who values trust, awareness, and digital, cultural, and physical transformation. Neal is also an endurance athlete and adventurer.



How to connect Neal : 

LinkedIn:   https://www.linkedin.com/in/nealconlon/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/neal.conlon.9

TiKTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@nealconlon?lang=en



How to connect Torund : 


Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/torundb/

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/torundb/

Website: https://torundbryhn.com/

Link to buy her book: https://amzn.to/3UmTJzI


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