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Episode 26 - Love Languages, Meet Money Languages: How We Spend Reflects How We Love
We all speak a love language — but did you know you also have a money language?
In this episode of the Money Matrimony Podcast, Nikki and Hayson unpack how the way we give and receive love connects deeply to how we manage (or mismanage) money.
If you’ve ever felt misunderstood when it comes to spending, saving, gifting, or budgeting — the problem may not be the numbers. It might be the meaning behind the money.
You’ll discover:
- What the 5 Love Languages are (and how they shape expectations in marriage)
- What “Money Languages” are — and how they drive financial decisions
- Real-life scenarios where love and money clash (and how to resolve them)
- How to build financial and emotional intimacy in your relationship
This is a must-listen for couples who want to move past tension and toward teamwork!
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Want to learn more about your own love and money languages?
👉 Love Language Quiz
https://5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/love-language
👉 Money Language Assessment
https://moneylanguages.com/take-the-assessment/
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Please note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional.
The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice.
Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another.
The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with.
Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions.
By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast.
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Re-release | Must-Listen: Joint Accounts – Bridging the Divide
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Re-release | Must-Listen: Money & Me (Part 1)
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31. Episode 31 — Is It Worth It? (Part 2) Family Holidays & Grocery Shopping
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30. Episode 30 — Is It Worth It? (Part 1) Subscriptions, Eating Out & Private Schools
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29. Episode 29 - Adulting 101: Health Insurance, Wills, and Grown-Up Stuff No One Told Us About
47:12||Ep. 29🎧 Episode 29: Adulting 101 - Health Insurance, Wills, and Grown-Up Stuff No One Told Us AboutBecause adulting doesn’t come with a manual — and we’re learning it together.Ever found yourself saying, “Why didn’t anyone teach us this in school?”You’re not alone.This week, we’re diving into the side of adulthood most people avoid talking about — things like health insurance, wills, superannuation, schooling, and how to actually plan for the unexpected.These aren’t glamorous topics… but they’re the ones that can make or break your family’s financial stability and peace of mind.In this episode, we’re unpacking what we’ve learned (often the hard way) about the practical side of life — and how couples can talk about these “grown-up” decisions before life forces them to.💬 What We Talk AboutHealth Insurance — What’s Actually Worth Paying ForWills, Estates & ‘What If’ PlanningSuperannuation & Protecting Your Future SelfDebt, Credit & Investing EarlyOther ‘Adulting’ Stuff No One Talks About💡 Key TakeawaysAdulting is love in action. Getting your financial house in order is one of the most caring things you can do for your family.Start small, but start now. You don’t need to have it all figured out — just take one practical step.Do it together. These conversations might feel uncomfortable, but they build trust and teamwork in marriage. *****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!*****Follow our socialsInstagram https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimonyLinkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimonyDisclaimerPlease note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional. The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice.Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another.The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with.Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions.By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast.
28. Episode 28 - Financial Life Hacks That Actually Work
46:37||Ep. 28Episode 28: Financial Life Hacks That Actually WorkEver feel like you’re working harder than ever but still watching money slip through your fingers? You’re not alone — and this week, we’re unpacking the real-world financial hacks that have helped our family save thousands (without feeling like we’re cutting joy out of life).From refinancing the mortgage to bulk-buying, side hustles, and mindset shifts — these are the exact strategies we’ve used to stretch our dollars further, simplify our finances, and free up money for the things that matter most.💡 In this episode we cover hacks in:🏠 Housing & Utilities🛒 Groceries & Household 🚗 Transportation👧 Kids & Education💰 Money Management & Habits🚀 Advanced Hacks – Negotiation tactics, credit card perks, and diversifying your income streams.🧠 Mindset & Lifestyle – Why delayed gratification and intentional simplicity can reshape your financial freedom.✨ Why you’ll love this episode:We skip the cliché “ditch your coffee” advice and dive into hacks that actually work for families. These are practical, tested-by-us strategies that improve cash flow, reduce stress, and create more space for what truly matters.👩❤️👨 Your challenge:Pick just one hack from today’s episode and put it into action this week. The hardest part is starting — but once you do, you’ll realise small tweaks lead to big wins.*****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!*****Follow our socialsInstagram https://www.instagram.com/themoneymatrimonyFacebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimonyLinkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimonyDisclaimerPlease note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional. The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice.Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another.The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with.Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions.By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast.
27. Episode 27 – Would You Rather…? Money Edition for Couples
41:06||Ep. 27🎙️ Episode 27: Would You Rather…? Money Edition for CouplesWhat do your choices reveal about your money personality — and your marriage?In this episode, Nikki and Hayson play a round of “Would You Rather: Money Edition,” answering thought-provoking (and sometimes laugh-out-loud) scenarios that every couple can relate to. From mortgages vs. investing, weddings vs. home deposits, to work-life balance vs. wealth-building — these questions aren’t just fun. They uncover deeper values around security, freedom, and how you and your partner approach life together.💡 In this episode we explore:Instant security vs. long-term compounding — would you pay off your mortgage today or invest half a million?Work-life balance vs. financial goals — would you choose a shorter work week or a bigger paycheck?Weddings vs. down payments — how do you balance romance and practicality?Transparency vs. trust — how much do you really want to know about your spouse’s spending?Harmony vs. cash — what’s more valuable: never arguing about money, or $100,000 free to spend?✨ Why listen?These playful “Would You Rather” questions go deeper than just money — they spark conversations about priorities, dreams, and what financial freedom actually means to you as a couple.👩❤️👨 Your challenge:Take these questions home. Pour some wine, sit on the couch, and ask each other: Would you rather…?You might be surprised at your spouse’s answer.📲 Join the conversation:We’ll be running polls and sharing your answers on Instagram — make sure to follow us and weigh in on the debates!*****Make sure to hit the subscribe button and join the conversation!*****Follow our socialsInstagram https://www.instagram.com/the.moneymatrimony/Facebook https://www.facebook.com/themoneymatrimonyLinkedin https://www.linkedin.com/company/the-money-matrimonyDisclaimerPlease note that nothing in this podcast should ever be considered personal financial advice. For advice specific to your situation & needs, we encourage you to speak to a finance professional. The information provided in this podcast, Money Matrimony, is for entertainment and informational purposes only. Whilst we are passionate about personal finance and share our experiences, opinions, and insights, it should not be construed as financial advice.Listeners are encouraged to seek the advice of a qualified financial advisor or professional before making any financial decision. Every individual and couple's financial situation is unique, and what works for one may not be suitable for another.The opinions expressed by the hosts and any guests on the show are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of any organizations or institutions they may be affiliated with.Money Matrimony does not guarantee the accuracy, completeness, or reliability of any information shared on the podcast. Listeners should conduct their own research and exercise their own judgment when making financial decisions.By listening to Money Matrimony, you agree that the hosts, guests, and producers of the podcast are not liable for any financial losses or damages that may result from actions taken based on the information provided in the podcast.