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When Is It Okay To Keep Your Relationship A Secret?
Season 1, Ep. 13
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Issa Rae's surprise wedding gets Kiki & Vanessa talking about secret relationships — They're common in Hollywood, but what about the ones we see in the real world? Vanessa also makes a Summer Shandy, and then lets you know how to set your kids up for financial success in her Hustle of the Week.
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Approx. Segment Times:
@4:50 — Cocktail Recipe: Summer Shandy
@29:25 — Hustle of the Week: Setting Up Your Kids for Financial Security
@38:30 — The Cool Down
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