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Amanda M. Fairbanks, THE LOST BOYS OF MONTAUK

Season 9, Ep. 9

"There's a lot of darkness, but there has to be some sort of sliver of light that we keep going. I do think these stories help us feel less alone. I do." Amanda Fairbanks explains how her career as a journalist shaped her approach to both researching and writing her first book The Lost Boys of Montauk. She also shares what the experience taught her about grief, trauma, and personal histories.


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Amazon: https://amzn.to/2RDa4Uw

Bookshop: https://bit.ly/3v7Fl0i

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