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Are Rites of Passage Right?

Ep. 250

Miquita Oliver and Jordan Stephens answer your questions about rites of passage. From that first rave, that first trying to talk your way into a club underage, to losing your virginity. As always your questions take the lead, and get all of us thinking about how we mark time and if we’ve got our priorities in the right place. 


Next week the theme is GAMES, however you interpret that word. Brb just playing Cluedo. It was Professor Plum, with the dagger, in the kitchen, obvs. WhatsApp us your voicenote questions on games to https://wa.me/447849030711


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Producer: Natalie Jamieson

Technical Producer: Oliver Geraghty 

Assistant Producer: Katie-Louise Buxton 

Video Editor: Danny Pape

Production Coordinator: Tom Jackson

Executive Producers: Ellie Clifford & Dino Sofos

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