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#18 Edhuvume plan panni pannanum... aana over-a plan panna koodathu! | Progress vs. Perfection
Ep. 18
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Have you ever had a brilliant idea, but delayed starting it because you wanted the conditions to be "just right"? In this deeply personal episode of The Mindset Machi, we are tackling the biggest silent killer of dreams: Perfectionism. I am pulling back the curtain and sharing the real reason why I delayed starting this exact podcast for over a year, and the massive mindset shift that finally got me behind the mic.
What we cover:
- The toxic trio of perfectionism: Procrastination, Burnout, and Missed Opportunities.
- My personal confession: Overthinking, fear of judgment, and the 1-year delay of The Mindset Machi podcast.
- Why "ready" is not a feeling, but a decision you have to make today.
- How to apply "Progress over Perfection" to your IT career, your fitness routines, and your daily life.
- The truth: Perfectionism isn't about being flawless; it's about being afraid.
Freedom begins the moment you stop trying to be perfect and allow yourself to be human. If this episode helped you break out of your paralysis, hit subscribe and leave a 5-star review on Spotify or Apple Podcasts!
About The Podcast: The Mindset Machi is your space to level up your life, mindset, and daily habits. Hosted by Roshan, expect raw, unfiltered, and direct conversations—just like talking to your best friend—to help you stop making excuses and start growing.
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