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Adult filmmaker Vex Ashley on feminist porn, sex work and the female gaze

Season 5, Ep. 70

This week on Millennial Love, we chat with adult film director and performer Vex Ashley.


Vex is the founder of Four Chambers, an alternative, creative, female-centric porn platform that explores sex away from the mainstream “tube sites” that saturate the industry.


Vex challenges the misconception that sex work is exploitative and argues that, through a creative and collaborative process with performers, pornography can be a medium for artistic expression.


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