Messy & Magnificent with Karlee Fain

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Revisiting: Making Money Moves: Upgrading Your Finances & Personal Power (Ep 13 ReRelease)

Ep. 107

Ever wonder how your relationship with money is connected to your relationship with your power? And why many women have mixed, often negative, feelings around money (no matter how much is in their bank account)?


Sometimes there’s shame, guilt, struggle, or a lack of financial clarity and that messes with our  mojo.


Here’s the deal: If you’re feeling unclear or lacking power around money, that lack of unclarity or lack of power can seep into other areas of your life, too. 


In this episode, Karlee rewinds back to some very important money talk. In the realm of overwhelm,  money tension can feel like a grey cloud that just hovers above us, and we don’t always give it the attention it needs. But that attention is the only way to brighten it up and get out from under its shadow. She talks about the cyclical nature of money and how you can maximize your relationship with it in each season. 


If you’re ready to take the simple, doable, tailored-for-you steps that’ll have you feeling more empowered, clear, and confident about your financial game, then this episode is for you.  


What You’ll Learn in This Episode:

  • How to start removing fear around making money. (17:53)
  • One doable practice to start improving your relationship with money. (23:59)
  • About the four cyclical seasons of money. (24:58)
  • How tracking your expenses and income can be super simple and impactful for your money game. (26:40)
  • What a bold money goal looks like for you. (33:00)


Resources Mentioned in this Episode: 

Money Is My Friend by Phil Laut 


Send your Audio Comments and Questions to anitza@everybodythrive.com


Connect With Karlee: 

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Messy and Magnificent is produced by the folx at Ginni Media.

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