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Truth Without Pain

Season 1, Ep. 6

The truth hurts or does it?


It seems to hurt and we certainly tell ourselves that it hurts. We even offer it to other people when we say things like "the truth hurts, doesn't it?". But what's actually happening there? It's time to question that story so that we can make sense of it because I don't believe the truth hurts. I believe our perception is what hurts.


In this episode we're talking about the truth that is possible to find when we clear our perception up. How does that help us? What do we have to do in order to get to a place where we can make the truth okay?


Join me! This is probably one of my favorite episodes that I've created for myself and I hope you enjoy it as much as I do.


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Love to all.


Della



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